StormOroro

I don't personally think you need to lose either. Just set aside a few nights maybe where you won't see your friends but just go out and look for mr. right. hang out somewhere where there are lot's of people and try and meet someone new. That way you can keep your Str8 friends but also be looking for someone special.
Dunno if that helps but... meh.

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