wow omg guys thank you all for your concern. As an update i decided not to pursue it, I thought that it might just end up all in tears as he was so far and still unsure of his sexuality. I have been dumped before because my bf decided he was too unsure about his sexuality and couln no longer continue the relationship. I dont think i could take that risk again, unless they lived near by and i got to know them a whole lot better. As for moving to London i am still in 2 minds about it. I live in a rural community and to quote a famous comedian 'i'm the only gay in the village!' or thats how i feel anyway. I went out friday night and my friends tried to set me up with this guy called Danny but he didnt exactly float my boat and he looked like he smoked/drank way too much. I dunno if i was setting my standards too high or being too picky because of lack of choice but it didnt exactly float my boat. London however is a city of oppertunity and one i might thrive in, i know some people there so i wouldnt be alone. Its just a big thing to do, i shall consider doing it. Maybe London contains my soulmate... only one way to find out i guess
