I never really came out, I think i'm just one those guys that it's pretty obvious that I'm gay (i'm not girly or camp, but people have just always assumed i'm gay). if anyone asks me if I'm gay i'll say yes, but i don't think i've ever initiated a conversation about it myself.
my parents know i'm gay too, without me telling them. my mom just asked me one day if a guy I was hanging out with was my boyfriend (which he was). I said yes & she said she was glad cos she liked my boyfriend. my dad's a bit more awkward about it, but I remember one time we were having a dinner party & one of the guys there made a joke about gay people & my dad said something like 'don't make jokes like that in my house, otherwise you can get the hell out'. after the party I said 'thanks for saying that' and he told me loved me .... it sounds corny, but it really felt amazing when he said that.
|