Hey everybody, I'm Emily, and I'm new here. Well first before I ask my question, I guess you should know a little about me. First off, I'm [going to be] in 10th grade. I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian or not. I've had a boyfriend before, but wasn't really happy with him, and I feel different in a good way around some girls. I go to a private Christian school, and my family is very Christian, but I'm not that hardcore about it. I haven't talked to anyone about me being lesbian yet, but I'm planning on talking to my best friend who is a girl some time this week.
So here's my question:
There's this girl in my class, and one of my friends told me she heard that she was a lesbian, but I'm not sure. We're not like
really close but we joke around and talk in class. Well the other day was the last day of school and it was the last class and she was there. The bell rang and she ran up and gave me a huge hug. Girls have hugged me before, but something was different about this. It felt special, like more than just a hug. The only problem is, well nobody knows that I'm into girls, and I'm not really sure if she is either. I probably won't see her again until late august, so I have a lot of time to think about what I should do.
Should I tell her that I like her? Or should I ask her if she's lesbian? I just need advice on how to handle this. I mean I really would like to get to know her better, maybe even be in a relationship... I really don't know.
Thanks so much for any help!
