or both at the same time? find a really hot guy and a really hot girl that would be willing to have a threesome, and those are always sexually exciting. and that way you could figure out what you like more.
MY ABSOLUTE ADVICE: experiment. You honestly have nothing to lose if your parents already think it, and if something goes wrong, just dont talk to the "one night stand"? i dunno, but it sounds to me like you are a worried thinker. If nothing i say helps, go see a massage therapist and learn to relax, go sit in a jacuzzi and chill out, maybe you can't get it up because you're stressed.
good luck.
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