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guy0680 · 06-22-2008, 10:28 AM

Hey I'm back again with some more questions for all of you. Thank you for the responses that I got on my last post here, they were all really helpful and I appreciate it. If your new to my situation, my old post is located HERE

My question this time is about having a gay crush/flirting. This is my first real crush on a guy and I don't know how to react or flirt. We both know each other is gay but are both closeted. We are almost playing a game trying to get the other to slip up and admit it. He has been choosing his words very carefully to describe past relationships, leaving out "Hims", "Hers", "She", "He" etc.. But we each have each made statements to each other that we suspect each other but neither will make the first move.

I asked him the other day if his eye color was real or if he wore colored contacts. He instead told me a story (very carefully and slowly to leave out the sex of the partner I noticed) about how he had been told in the past that his eyes get bluer when he orgasms. Is this flirting/trying to get me interested in sex with him??

My normal response (if a girl had told me that) would have been a corny joke like "oh yeah when are you going to prove it?" or something along the lines, but I didn't because that would have outed me. I instead said "Oh really? We'll thats pretty bad when your eyes are the only thing that they were interested in during it" and winked at him. He smiled/laughed and said "Oh yeah, thats what you think."

Does anyone have any advice on whether that is flirting or not? And any advice on the "game" we are having trying to get the other to slip up?

06-22-2008, 10:28 AM	#1 (permalink)
guy0680 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Gender: Posts: 62	Advice on gay crush's/flirting Hey I'm back again with some more questions for all of you. Thank you for the responses that I got on my last post here, they were all really helpful and I appreciate it. If your new to my situation, my old post is located HERE My question this time is about having a gay crush/flirting. This is my first real crush on a guy and I don't know how to react or flirt. We both know each other is gay but are both closeted. We are almost playing a game trying to get the other to slip up and admit it. He has been choosing his words very carefully to describe past relationships, leaving out "Hims", "Hers", "She", "He" etc.. But we each have each made statements to each other that we suspect each other but neither will make the first move. I asked him the other day if his eye color was real or if he wore colored contacts. He instead told me a story (very carefully and slowly to leave out the sex of the partner I noticed) about how he had been told in the past that his eyes get bluer when he orgasms. Is this flirting/trying to get me interested in sex with him?? My normal response (if a girl had told me that) would have been a corny joke like "oh yeah when are you going to prove it?" or something along the lines, but I didn't because that would have outed me. I instead said "Oh really? We'll thats pretty bad when your eyes are the only thing that they were interested in during it" and winked at him. He smiled/laughed and said "Oh yeah, thats what you think." Does anyone have any advice on whether that is flirting or not? And any advice on the "game" we are having trying to get the other to slip up?