Yea, I am very confused too! I don't know if I'm gay or bi, though prolly gay, and I know most of my friends would be against it and not accept me anymore, especially my best friend, and I'm not willing to loose our friendship over my coming out
On the other hand, I think my family would take it fine cuz one of my cousins came out a month ago and they were all fine with it, but I just don't think I'm ready.