I was talking a guy friend and they said something that bothered me... cause its just, how can they think that way.
He said something and i think, grrr... its bothering me though, so i must ask my friends... keep in mind hes not single... but thinks that wont last long... but maybe its that, that bothers me...
Do you believe that there is a soul mate for someone... i want to believe there is... i want one who wants me... and none other... one who would stand the tests of time... but he said that he doesn't think there is a forever for two people. He doesn't think that he ever get married... that there is no one that would last for him and he couldn't last for them. Its mistrust in them and others. Its nature to find a soul mate, you look to so tropic fish... they will go a life time in search. and when they find that one... they never leave each other. It doesn't matter the sex, if different or if they are the same it doesn't matter... even then sometimes threw natures miracles they will change for the other if thats what be. It love and natural, you find it in everything. Is There Not One Who Will Live To Love? If You Will... A Soul Mate?
Now i think that his odd thinking is due to his prior relationships, all really serious and lasting years at a time. Then also how his parents split up... things along those lines, just a whole lot of crap that hes had to deal with.... all this and more... if anyones taken any Psychology classes in college, you would understand my concern, these things are damaging... desensitizing. Kind of would make red flags if you were looking for a relationship... the question is can you reverse any of it.
I don't go into a relationship thinking it will last forever... but i do hope it will...
This boy, he dates seriously... but wouldn't that mean it would be pointless if hes not looking for it to last...
I think he should be happy and hope that he will be... and hope he finds someone to love him... i know its wrong, but i like him. I think its more than that, maybe ill get my chance to show him, maybe he may change. I don't want to get hurt... i don't think he would. This world is in lacking of decent men, and hes beyond that... if not for this little tweek. I've had some bad runs. i don't care, what should it do... hes with someone, they aren't happy, and i remain only a friend. ill be patient, i wont cringe on others chances.
If hes not with someone, he the same but rather a slut... and that could be bad.
grrr... *sigh*
Sorry i had to vent a little. If you have anything that you want to know more depth in just let me know... ill give a few more. Please Friends... Advise Me!