How did you come out...? - Page 3

iop92 · 06-26-2008, 04:36 PM

I'm fine with jokes anyway lol. You can't really hurt me with stuff like that

Queer Lemon · 06-26-2008, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by jspoons1293

I don't mind jokes either, but I get pissed off if the person doesn't realize that their joke can be offensive. As long as they realize that, I'm fine with the joke, but if they say it like noone cares, I get pissed off.

that is EXACTLY how i describe it to my friends. :]

jspoons1293 · 06-26-2008, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Queer Lemon

that is EXACTLY how i describe it to my friends. :]

copycat.

eian17 · 07-13-2008, 02:49 PM

ya i came out to my mom in the target hair dyeing section, ya i counted she had asked me 26 times that day and finaly i just admited to it and she was mad she was like why did you tell me this here and at this time, it was funny cause she looked around her like everyone was judging her, she didnt talk to me for a few days but its all better now, she accepts me, still thinks i change one day.

MintMike · 07-13-2008, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by eian17

ya i came out to my mom in the target hair dyeing section, ya i counted she had asked me 26 times that day and finaly i just admited to it and she was mad she was like why did you tell me this here and at this time, it was funny cause she looked around her like everyone was judging her, she didnt talk to me for a few days but its all better now, she accepts me, still thinks i change one day.

It was pretty much the same here. I came out through a letter; my mum thought I was playing a joke on her lol. Anyways long story short she ignored me for a couple of weeks and now she accepts it basically because she thinks I will change one day.

Aw.J · 07-13-2008, 08:49 PM

My mom always knew I liked guys too (Cause I like girls and guys but I wouldn't classify myself as bi but pansexual, unfortunately EVERYONE has a problem with that) My aunt found out cuz of my Myspace HAHA, and I told my besties Tyesha and Rylee, and by the end of that month, I'd lost my "bestfriend", made some new ones, got the teacher to hate me, and I got two other HOTTTT SMOKIN' GUYS to come out (I knew they were gay haha)

stegreeny · 07-19-2008, 12:44 AM

i'm writing a responce to this, but strictly speaking, i'm not entirely out yet.

i told my best friend first after like an hour of talking about homosexuality, then my dad who was fine with it (always been the more open-mined of my parents). i eventually told one of my friends accidentally and they, in turn told eveyone at my school, basically dragging me out of the closet and pointing a finger at me.

the thing is, even though almost all of my friends and some family know, i really don't want to tell the rest of my family, most of them are religious, especially my mum, so i'm still working on that, any advice?

exposure36 · 07-21-2008, 10:01 PM

i came out to my mom by writing her a letter explaining about me becuase i was so FREAKED out of my mind to tell her and then she said its ok.

i told my dad while he was driving. i thought he was going to shoot up the place but he was calm. he just thinks its a phase and i am this way because i started to hang out with some gay friends and that made me gay(that comment really pissed me off)

then some other people would ask me if i was and i would say hell no but then i would look around and whisper to them "think again".

bloodhoundx32 · 07-22-2008, 12:46 AM

im just out so some friends ,
the first person i told was this guy i had a crush on (soon to be my first bf) i only told him after he told me he was into guys
then i told my closest friend on the bus on the way to school writing it out on my DS , haha , but then i just started telling most my friends in person ... none cared since most are girls that are in love with gay guys

07-13-2008, 02:49 PM	#34 (permalink)
eian17 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Country Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 4	Target ya i came out to my mom in the target hair dyeing section, ya i counted she had asked me 26 times that day and finaly i just admited to it and she was mad she was like why did you tell me this here and at this time, it was funny cause she looked around her like everyone was judging her, she didnt talk to me for a few days but its all better now, she accepts me, still thinks i change one day.

07-13-2008, 08:49 PM	#36 (permalink)
Aw.J Official GTF Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Goldsboro, North Carolina Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 204	My mom always knew I liked guys too (Cause I like girls and guys but I wouldn't classify myself as bi but pansexual, unfortunately EVERYONE has a problem with that) My aunt found out cuz of my Myspace HAHA, and I told my besties Tyesha and Rylee, and by the end of that month, I'd lost my "bestfriend", made some new ones, got the teacher to hate me, and I got two other HOTTTT SMOKIN' GUYS to come out (I knew they were gay haha) __________________ I feel like we're friends again. So why have I put up this wall?

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06-26-2008, 04:36 PM	#31 (permalink)
iop92 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Israel Age: 16 Posts: 132	I'm fine with jokes anyway lol. You can't really hurt me with stuff like that

07-19-2008, 12:44 AM	#37 (permalink)
stegreeny Official GTF Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Preston, North-West England Gender: Posts: 50	i'm writing a responce to this, but strictly speaking, i'm not entirely out yet. i told my best friend first after like an hour of talking about homosexuality, then my dad who was fine with it (always been the more open-mined of my parents). i eventually told one of my friends accidentally and they, in turn told eveyone at my school, basically dragging me out of the closet and pointing a finger at me. the thing is, even though almost all of my friends and some family know, i really don't want to tell the rest of my family, most of them are religious, especially my mum, so i'm still working on that, any advice?

07-21-2008, 10:01 PM	#38 (permalink)
exposure36 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New york city Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 113	i came out to my mom by writing her a letter explaining about me becuase i was so FREAKED out of my mind to tell her and then she said its ok. i told my dad while he was driving. i thought he was going to shoot up the place but he was calm. he just thinks its a phase and i am this way because i started to hang out with some gay friends and that made me gay(that comment really pissed me off) then some other people would ask me if i was and i would say hell no but then i would look around and whisper to them "think again".

07-22-2008, 12:46 AM	#39 (permalink)
bloodhoundx32 Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: queens Gender: Posts: 8	im just out so some friends , the first person i told was this guy i had a crush on (soon to be my first bf) i only told him after he told me he was into guys then i told my closest friend on the bus on the way to school writing it out on my DS , haha , but then i just started telling most my friends in person ... none cared since most are girls that are in love with gay guys