I have a big problem

AdamP · 03-02-2008, 04:45 PM

Right I've come out to my mum and stepdad and they have bin really good and accepted me totally and I'm soo happy, but i still need to tell my dad but i don't see him that often and I have no idea how he's going to react, i know his girlfriend can be abit homophobic and she makes nasty comments sumtimes. but I'm telling the rest of my family and all of my friends know, so i need to tell him sum how but i really don't know were to start, any advice would really help xxx

Angelknight18 · 03-02-2008, 08:05 PM

Are you planning on telling him directly? Cause if you think that is too hard, you can just wait until the rumors spread around. That is how I got out of telling my whole family.

CeeJus · 03-02-2008, 09:57 PM

I like the knock knock joke idea. But some people are stupid and say "I'm gay who?"

AdamP · 03-03-2008, 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angelknight18

Are you planning on telling him directly? Cause if you think that is too hard, you can just wait until the rumors spread around. That is how I got out of telling my whole family.

well I was thinking about it but I'm not sure, tbh I think that I'm just gunna tell the rest of my family and just see wat happens but I want to tell him but I don't know how he's gunna react

he's like dead quite so I don't know how he feels about gay's lol

CeeJus · 03-03-2008, 04:16 PM

just be honest with him and hope for the best. if he can't accept you immediately, hopefully in time he will.

03-02-2008, 04:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
AdamP Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 7	I have a big problem Right I've come out to my mum and stepdad and they have bin really good and accepted me totally and I'm soo happy, but i still need to tell my dad but i don't see him that often and I have no idea how he's going to react, i know his girlfriend can be abit homophobic and she makes nasty comments sumtimes. but I'm telling the rest of my family and all of my friends know, so i need to tell him sum how but i really don't know were to start, any advice would really help xxx

03-02-2008, 08:05 PM	#2 (permalink)
Angelknight18 Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Spring Grove Gender: Posts: 71	Are you planning on telling him directly? Cause if you think that is too hard, you can just wait until the rumors spread around. That is how I got out of telling my whole family. __________________ I am just Fabulous. How Bout You?

03-02-2008, 09:57 PM	#3 (permalink)
CeeJus Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Michigan Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 111	I like the knock knock joke idea. But some people are stupid and say "I'm gay who?" __________________ "A guy showed up to my door with anal beads and a flash light. I was like....woah woah woah!....what's up with the flashlight?!" -Chelsea Handler youtube.com/ceejus

03-03-2008, 04:16 PM	#5 (permalink)
CeeJus Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Michigan Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 111	just be honest with him and hope for the best. if he can't accept you immediately, hopefully in time he will. __________________ "A guy showed up to my door with anal beads and a flash light. I was like....woah woah woah!....what's up with the flashlight?!" -Chelsea Handler youtube.com/ceejus

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