Help!!

emo-Jordon · 03-29-2008, 11:15 AM

i live in a family where i have four brothers, two of them know about my sexuality, the two others are completely homophobic exactly like my dad. I want to tell my mum but i just dont know how and could i really go through the anguish of being disowned by my 2 brothers and my dad, and i cant help being worried about my mums reaction. i'm, thinking maybe i should wait untill she asks me but if any of you have any advice for me it'd be much apreciated

**reminiscence** · 03-29-2008, 05:35 PM

ok, odds are ur mom asking are like, too low to bother taking that into account as an option. odds are if ur dads as bad as u say, ur mom will feel the need to help u thru this instead of getting upset. Id say tell her, but please dont be one of those guys who thinks that just cos he thought of a boy once he thinks he's gay. ur still young, so dont feel like u need to rush it

emo-Jordon · 03-29-2008, 05:41 PM

trust me im not one of those guys, i am a virgin but i have had sexual expieriences with guys, and although im Bi my sexual urges tend to be more aimed at guys. Ive known i was different for ages but have never had the courage to say anything about it before which is why i'm scared about making this descision, because i if come out, i'll never be treated the same again.

mycole6 · 03-29-2008, 10:12 PM

I have been guy crazy since puberty but I dodn't come out until I was 15 after my 9 year relationship with a girl (TRacie Dockery). Started at 7 as kiddy cute love and lasted unil the teen years. I broke up with her and came out on the same day. But it was easy for me to come out. My mom is a lesbo. lol

emo-Jordon · 03-30-2008, 09:01 PM

i wish my mum was a lesbian, it would make things much less complicated lol

03-29-2008, 11:15 AM	#1 (permalink)
emo-Jordon Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Aberdeen, Scotland Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 69	Help!! i live in a family where i have four brothers, two of them know about my sexuality, the two others are completely homophobic exactly like my dad. I want to tell my mum but i just dont know how and could i really go through the anguish of being disowned by my 2 brothers and my dad, and i cant help being worried about my mums reaction. i'm, thinking maybe i should wait untill she asks me but if any of you have any advice for me it'd be much apreciated

03-29-2008, 05:35 PM	#2 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 473	ok, odds are ur mom asking are like, too low to bother taking that into account as an option. odds are if ur dads as bad as u say, ur mom will feel the need to help u thru this instead of getting upset. Id say tell her, but please dont be one of those guys who thinks that just cos he thought of a boy once he thinks he's gay. ur still young, so dont feel like u need to rush it __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

03-29-2008, 10:12 PM	#4 (permalink)
mycole6 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Kokomo, Indiana Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 130	I have been guy crazy since puberty but I dodn't come out until I was 15 after my 9 year relationship with a girl (TRacie Dockery). Started at 7 as kiddy cute love and lasted unil the teen years. I broke up with her and came out on the same day. But it was easy for me to come out. My mom is a lesbo. lol __________________ Creed Bonivard http://creedbonivard.tripod.com

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03-29-2008, 05:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
emo-Jordon Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Aberdeen, Scotland Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 69	trust me im not one of those guys, i am a virgin but i have had sexual expieriences with guys, and although im Bi my sexual urges tend to be more aimed at guys. Ive known i was different for ages but have never had the courage to say anything about it before which is why i'm scared about making this descision, because i if come out, i'll never be treated the same again.

03-30-2008, 09:01 PM	#5 (permalink)
emo-Jordon Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Aberdeen, Scotland Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 69	i wish my mum was a lesbian, it would make things much less complicated lol