HOW DO I COME OUT???????????im scared

breakmeagain101 · 04-14-2008, 10:41 AM

So im really afraid to come out to alot of my friends b/c a lot of them know my parents and im also afraid i'll mess up friendships...im also REALLY afraid to come out to my family b/c they are super-strong christians

Please someone help me

Seth · 04-14-2008, 12:12 PM

I told my mum, dad, and best friends, and told my friends to spread it. Saved on telling everyone, and saved awkward 'i'm gay' moments. Just a simple yes would be sufficient.

**Adrastus** · 04-14-2008, 01:28 PM

Ahaha, yeah one of my friends actually just came out to everyone (girl) . . . she is so happy right now. She told a few people and was just like "Spread the word" . .I'm not as fortunate, ahah lots of cousins and such. Tell your good friends, ones you can trust, once you have that safety net - you should be all set.

breakmeagain101 · 04-14-2008, 04:18 PM

I dont know who to trust cause the only ones ive trusted in the past were the ones who know my parents (or my brother, who would tell my parents) really well......how can i tell if i can trust them

04-14-2008, 10:41 AM	#1 (permalink)
breakmeagain101 Official GTF Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Richardson, Texas Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 16	HOW DO I COME OUT???????????im scared So im really afraid to come out to alot of my friends b/c a lot of them know my parents and im also afraid i'll mess up friendships...im also REALLY afraid to come out to my family b/c they are super-strong christians Please someone help me

04-14-2008, 12:12 PM	#2 (permalink)
Seth Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: manchestaaaaaoor Gender: Posts: 914	I told my mum, dad, and best friends, and told my friends to spread it. Saved on telling everyone, and saved awkward 'i'm gay' moments. Just a simple yes would be sufficient. __________________ myspace.com/kthxdan

04-14-2008, 01:28 PM	#3 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 864	Ahaha, yeah one of my friends actually just came out to everyone (girl) . . . she is so happy right now. She told a few people and was just like "Spread the word" . .I'm not as fortunate, ahah lots of cousins and such. Tell your good friends, ones you can trust, once you have that safety net - you should be all set. __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

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04-14-2008, 04:18 PM	#4 (permalink)
breakmeagain101 Official GTF Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Richardson, Texas Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 16	I dont know who to trust cause the only ones ive trusted in the past were the ones who know my parents (or my brother, who would tell my parents) really well......how can i tell if i can trust them