Hiding is no fun...

killingloneliness · 04-17-2008, 10:11 PM

eh, i wanna come out to basically every1, including my family. i tell all my friends im bi, but im basically gay.

so i wanna tell every1 and be able to finish high school being somewhat happy!

any advice???

yingyang69 · 04-17-2008, 11:02 PM

start by telling the people your most comfortable with and you can trust and wont judge you, then work your way up to the more difficult people

Seth · 04-18-2008, 07:30 AM

You know what I did, told my dad, told my mum, told my best friend Bryony, asked her to spread it. I asked her in the morning, an hour later I had 402 txt messages, a quarter of my school.

Simple, and saved awkward and annoying 'YES, FOR THE LAST TIME I'M GAY!'

killingloneliness · 04-18-2008, 02:47 PM

lol well the only problem with telling my family is that then i wont be able to have boys in my room anymore, and that basically takes all the fun out of it!

i could care less about wat ppl think, except my family, cause i ALWAYS have to be around them. im also afraid wat my grandparents will say cause they r really judgmental, and already hate the way i dress.

i kno its mean, but maybe ill just wait til they all die, but thats gonna be a long time, so idk! lol

Seth · 04-18-2008, 03:15 PM

The longer you keep it from them, the longer it will be until they trust you to have lads in. If they find out youve been lying to them, and shagging random lads in your room for much longer, the situation could be a whole lot worse.

Plastic · 04-19-2008, 07:43 AM

Just send them all a text message at the same time, run away for a week and then return

*

*not how you should actually do it

Jamd · 04-19-2008, 02:58 PM

i had th idea of going to the skwl counselor and having her kal in my parents and doing it with her suport. gay ppl r awsum, thts y ppl dnt lyk us. tisk tisk jealousy

Jamd · 04-19-2008, 03:06 PM

acceptance is just another form of homophobia, thinking there is something to accept. by being gay you have done nothing wrong...except, perhaps, stealing all the cute guys from the chickas.
but i understand why the people around us should know - it's awkward walking in on your son snogging another boy, but what the heck. btw, why are l.o. teachers so against wiccans and gays when they shove the constitution down our throats day in?

killingloneliness · 04-22-2008, 10:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jamd

btw, why are l.o. teachers so against wiccans and gays when they shove the constitution down our throats day in?

lol... im gay and part wiccan... haha...

but my mom WANTS me to be gay, but i just really dont feel comfortable or ready telling her

04-17-2008, 10:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
killingloneliness Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: MA Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 116	Hiding is no fun... eh, i wanna come out to basically every1, including my family. i tell all my friends im bi, but im basically gay. so i wanna tell every1 and be able to finish high school being somewhat happy! any advice??? __________________ Live. Love. Let Die.

04-17-2008, 11:02 PM	#2 (permalink)
yingyang69 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 83	start by telling the people your most comfortable with and you can trust and wont judge you, then work your way up to the more difficult people __________________ um...im new....so a hi would be appreciated ^_^ and maby some advice

04-18-2008, 07:30 AM	#3 (permalink)
Seth Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: manchestaaaaaoor Gender: Posts: 771	You know what I did, told my dad, told my mum, told my best friend Bryony, asked her to spread it. I asked her in the morning, an hour later I had 402 txt messages, a quarter of my school. Simple, and saved awkward and annoying 'YES, FOR THE LAST TIME I'M GAY!' __________________ myspace.com/kthxdan

04-18-2008, 02:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
killingloneliness Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: MA Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 116	lol well the only problem with telling my family is that then i wont be able to have boys in my room anymore, and that basically takes all the fun out of it! i could care less about wat ppl think, except my family, cause i ALWAYS have to be around them. im also afraid wat my grandparents will say cause they r really judgmental, and already hate the way i dress. i kno its mean, but maybe ill just wait til they all die, but thats gonna be a long time, so idk! lol __________________ Live. Love. Let Die.

04-18-2008, 03:15 PM	#5 (permalink)
Seth Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: manchestaaaaaoor Gender: Posts: 771	The longer you keep it from them, the longer it will be until they trust you to have lads in. If they find out youve been lying to them, and shagging random lads in your room for much longer, the situation could be a whole lot worse. __________________ myspace.com/kthxdan

04-19-2008, 07:43 AM	#6 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 712	Just send them all a text message at the same time, run away for a week and then return * *not how you should actually do it __________________

04-19-2008, 02:58 PM	#7 (permalink)
Jamd Official GTF Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: South Africa Gender: Posts: 106	i had th idea of going to the skwl counselor and having her kal in my parents and doing it with her suport. gay ppl r awsum, thts y ppl dnt lyk us. tisk tisk jealousy __________________ a man that smiles when something goes wrong has thought of someone to blame it on

04-19-2008, 03:06 PM	#8 (permalink)
Jamd Official GTF Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: South Africa Gender: Posts: 106	acceptance is just another form of homophobia, thinking there is something to accept. by being gay you have done nothing wrong...except, perhaps, stealing all the cute guys from the chickas. but i understand why the people around us should know - it's awkward walking in on your son snogging another boy, but what the heck. btw, why are l.o. teachers so against wiccans and gays when they shove the constitution down our throats day in? __________________ a man that smiles when something goes wrong has thought of someone to blame it on

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