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as some of you already know ive been trying to come out to my mum, but it is alot harder than i thought it would be but anyway the other day i was just sitting and watching tv with her and she asked me: have you got a girlfriend yet?
and then i replied with a simple no but then she said to me: what about a boyfriend and i gave her a joking answer of "oh yeah, everyone" but the thing thats really getting to me is that i dont know if she knows or not, it could have been an average joke question, or she was dropping a hint but i dont even have the slightest clue as to if she actually knows or not. damn this is confusing! |
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Why didnt you just say the truth then......
That would have been as good as time as ever, if you reply with some honesty...
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I would have laughed subtley... and said "i wish" or something.
IF my parents EVER asked that question.. i'd take a stab at telling them right then and there. it'd relieve so much pressure.
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haha my mom asks me all the time if im gay and i always say no. its not that im ashamed, its just that im not ready to tell her. she basically wants me to be gay, and she tells me that she likes gay people better than straight people! so i kno it will be ok to tell her, im just not ready to do it
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To killingloneliness, i wish i had your mom! but, remember that you come out when you're and not to be pressured by anyone.
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yea, i wanna tell her, but im too afraid of wat will change. i dfeel uncomfortable with the talk of things like if she asked things like, "oh, have u found a bf?" or "oh, i found sum1 that u might be able to date" or anything else that could make awkward conversation for me. i also dont want my outer family to kno, like my grandparents and aunts and uncles and stuff.
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