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Old 12-12-2007, 07:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Title pretty much explains it. For the people that are out here.. who was the first person you came out too? Girl, Guy?, Best friend?, Family?

Also kinda interested how were your guy : girl friend ratio?
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Title pretty much explains it. For the people that are out here.. who was the first person you came out too? Girl, Guy?, Best friend?, Family?

Also kinda interested how were your guy : girl friend ratio?
The first person I came out to was my best friend, a guy. My guy : girl ratio is 3 : 0 weirdly enough lol
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i came out to my future gf, say i was bi. she said i still love you and that dosen't bother me...i said i want to expermient she said i love you and will always love you....i said i'm gay and she said i'll still love and love you so much i will wait..you let me know when ur redy..till then lets continue to be friends. i said i love you so much thnx for waiting and i don't want you waiting anymore...for me it gave me courage and i told only all of my friends and the whole school...teachers kept it quite form my mom cuz they loved me. as much as the students.

i have a pretty even number of male and female friends...lol we have a little gang of friends
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I came out to my best friend a year a year and a half ago (Girl) as bi, she screeched in my ear (we were on the phone to each other), "Oh wow, im not the only one" haha! But sents April last year now i've come put as gay!

My Guy : Girl friend ratio is 3:7
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I came out to my best friend a year a year and a half ago (Girl) as bi, she screeched in my ear (we were on the phone to each other), "Oh wow, im not the only one" haha! But sents April last year now i've come put as gay!

My Guy : Girl friend ratio is 3:7
That's usually how it is with gay guys...
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mmm well i came out to my best friend dan and the rest of the group i hang with, and his girlfriend went and told my entire math class that day..... it was ok tho coz i was ready for it. my perants still dont know though.
my guy to girl ratio at the moment is 2:1 (she was out of simpathy and i took her out to a movie, thats all)
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i came out to my best friends, then most of my school, then my parents and my sister
rest of family dont

guy:girl fried ratio = 3:4

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i first came out to my best friend (gurl) and she understoood me then i started to came out to all my friends.. Now everyone of my friends knows about it and some family members like my 2 bros and my cuzns and my uncle and aunt but still my dad and mom dnt know it. They once mentioned that if im gay i should just forget about em.... but sometimes they have doubts and sometimes i think they know it they just dont want to accept it.
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I came out first to my two best friends that are girls, one is bi. Then I cam out to like 12 other people. Thats where I am now..
Guy to Girl ratio: 1:1 (I think, pretty half and half)
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I came out to my gay friends first and got some great advice and support from them, and then I told my bests..I still have to tell one of my best friends, which is difficult because he will be the first straight guy I tell(and actually care about as a friend).
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i came out to my friend first.. only because i wanted to date him.. i came out to my brother after that... and then he told a couple people and i told a couple people.. and now i am confident of being gay.. I love it!!
my brother loves me for it too because he has my back for anything..
Now everybody who looks at myspace or facebook know i am gay!!
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first came out to my best friend in the world (a girl)
then it was several more girls after that...
and then the world!
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Title pretty much explains it. For the people that are out here.. who was the first person you came out too? Girl, Guy?, Best friend?, Family?

Also kinda interested how were your guy : girl friend ratio?
The one person I was sure would be able to accept me. This girl I'd met the year before.

And my ratio is at least 1:5. :/
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