OMG i was SO SURE i posted this

**reminiscence** · 12-30-2007, 07:39 PM

You did post this, this is the one thread that we lost during the server move. (Bulvox)

Ok i thought i posted this but apparently not. In a nutshell:

Girl likes me, I'm ready to come out, dont wanna hurt her, wanna come out asap preferably by new years.

Theres no real way i cant hurt her a little, cos ppl already treat us like a couple. we went out once, but i HONESTLY didnt think it was a date. What do you think I should do? mta

**Adrastus** · 12-30-2007, 08:14 PM

Do you plan on coming out to a few people? or to everyone at once? Cause.. you don't want to piss off a girl that is in love with you by telling her you're gay, she might do something like tell everyone, depending on how she re-acts. She will come around quickly, but, you have to expect stuff like that.

**Bulvox** · 12-31-2007, 12:17 AM

If you want to stay in the closet I suggest that you tell her you simply don't like her. If you don't want her to be mad at you , make up some bullshit excuse.

**reminiscence** · 12-31-2007, 06:04 AM

no I'm coming out to everyone. well like closest friends I mean, not like whole school kinda thing

DubbLYU · 12-31-2007, 04:09 PM

well, i have been in a similar situation a couple of times. i've come out to one of them in order for me to get her off my back. lol! but, that's only because she was a close friend and i knew that she would understand. as for the other girls, i simply told them that i did not have feelings for them. they understood as well and that saved me the ordeal of coming out to more people. i suggest you do the same depending on how close you are to this friend. good luck!

**reminiscence** · 01-04-2008, 06:14 PM

I was thinking yesterday, when she was being all slutty with me. SCREW HER! this time is hardly about her! it about me! I have to deal with the reactions and stuff, if she's upset she's just selfish! I'm gonna come out this weekend if I can or to a friend in school on mon

12-30-2007, 07:39 PM	#1 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 473	OMG i was SO SURE i posted this You did post this, this is the one thread that we lost during the server move. (Bulvox) Ok i thought i posted this but apparently not. In a nutshell: Girl likes me, I'm ready to come out, dont wanna hurt her, wanna come out asap preferably by new years. Theres no real way i cant hurt her a little, cos ppl already treat us like a couple. we went out once, but i HONESTLY didnt think it was a date. What do you think I should do? mta __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath! Last edited by Bulvox; 12-31-2007 at 02:59 PM. Reason: Server move

12-30-2007, 08:14 PM	#2 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 865	Do you plan on coming out to a few people? or to everyone at once? Cause.. you don't want to piss off a girl that is in love with you by telling her you're gay, she might do something like tell everyone, depending on how she re-acts. She will come around quickly, but, you have to expect stuff like that. __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

12-31-2007, 12:17 AM	#3 (permalink)
Bulvox GTF Administrator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Virginia Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 964	If you want to stay in the closet I suggest that you tell her you simply don't like her. If you don't want her to be mad at you , make up some bullshit excuse. __________________ Help out out a bit! Tell your friends about GTF!

12-31-2007, 06:04 AM	#4 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 473	no I'm coming out to everyone. well like closest friends I mean, not like whole school kinda thing __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

12-31-2007, 04:09 PM	#5 (permalink)
DubbLYU Official GTF Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 309	well, i have been in a similar situation a couple of times. i've come out to one of them in order for me to get her off my back. lol! but, that's only because she was a close friend and i knew that she would understand. as for the other girls, i simply told them that i did not have feelings for them. they understood as well and that saved me the ordeal of coming out to more people. i suggest you do the same depending on how close you are to this friend. good luck! __________________

01-04-2008, 06:14 PM	#6 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 473	I was thinking yesterday, when she was being all slutty with me. SCREW HER! this time is hardly about her! it about me! I have to deal with the reactions and stuff, if she's upset she's just selfish! I'm gonna come out this weekend if I can or to a friend in school on mon __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

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