my brother officially knows! sort of...i think...

**reminiscence** · 01-13-2008, 05:38 PM

Well my mom was all blah blah blah and i was all blah blah blah, and he was like five feet away(literally) in a room across the hall, and she was all ''prejudice, worse than being pregnant etc'' and I was all ''get over it there are gays in my year and no1 cares'' and then at one point he walked in, and looked at me for a sec(which NEVER happens) then gave my mom chewing gum or something and left. I'm sure he knows now, but I always thought he kinda knew cos, y'know Britney!, which is why I presumed we seldom talk. Anyway I'm sure enough he knows that I probably won(wow my dad just walked in and he'd kill me for being here)'t confront the situation until I'm in a real relationship

DubbLYU · 01-13-2008, 05:47 PM

wow, it kinda sucks to get outted when your not the one outting yourself. tough break. i hope all goes well. but, just curious, is your brother older or younger than you?

**reminiscence** · 01-13-2008, 05:49 PM

he's 20. It is bad to be outed before being prepared, but in this case it's my own fault and I have no worries of it becoming gossip

Plastic · 01-14-2008, 11:18 AM

Does your mum know then?

**reminiscence** · 01-14-2008, 12:14 PM

yeah, both my parents have known September14 Christmas 2006. (I remember 'cos its the day after I got my junior cert results, not cos I'm some sorta Robo-cop memory freak

)

Plastic · 01-14-2008, 12:37 PM

I remember the date I came out to my friends because it was my birthday - I think I'm going to work out the date I came out to my parents.

Call Me Irresponsible · 01-17-2008, 01:37 PM

well... my brother finding out went like this:

HIM: (walks in to my room, closes all the doors even though nobody is home, looks at me while i'm at the computer desk.) [Deep and dopey] Dude, uhh, you gay?
ME: Uhh... well... yeah, i guess. O.O
HIM: Oh, okay, just wanted to let you know i'm coo wit dat.
ME: ... that was awkward and badly done.

Robthizzle · 01-17-2008, 01:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Call Me Irresponsible

well... my brother finding out went like this:

HIM: (walks in to my room, closes all the doors even though nobody is home, looks at me while i'm at the computer desk.) [Deep and dopey] Dude, uhh, you gay?
ME: Uhh... well... yeah, i guess. O.O
HIM: Oh, okay, just wanted to let you know i'm coo wit dat.
ME: ... that was awkward and badly done.

hahaha i wish coming out to everyone was that easy lol

Call Me Irresponsible · 01-17-2008, 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robthizzle

hahaha i wish coming out to everyone was that easy lol

lmao I know, right??

brothers usually need some time to absorb it and realize that there really is no change. like, you're the same person even though he knows (if he does) and it takes a little while for them to realize that. Once they do, they're usually good about being comfortable around you. It won't be a big deal soon enough

Robthizzle · 01-17-2008, 03:56 PM

yuuup i came out to my dad in the 7th grade and he couldnt careless all he cares about is my happyness

queerbait/queenscene · 01-17-2008, 04:15 PM

i wish my dad were that understanding
i still havnt told him
and im in ELEVENTH grade
hes always been kind of a homophobe my whole life

Robthizzle · 01-17-2008, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by queerbait/queenscene

i wish my dad were that understanding
i still havnt told him
and im in ELEVENTH grade
hes always been kind of a homophobe my whole life

i actualy dont recomend coming out of the closet, not even if you absolutely feel like you must, my mom wasnt understanding at all and told me it was a fase and i could get cousling for it, and i just lucked out on my dad, atm i hate my mom more than any one and i know, and i love me dad more than any one i know

**reminiscence** · 01-17-2008, 04:48 PM

you shouldnt be so quick to toss around the word hate. If you hated your mom that much, you'd be mourning the loss of the mom you loved as if she were dead

Robthizzle · 01-17-2008, 04:59 PM

What? That doesn't make sence. I do hate my mom. Honestly. My views may change as i grow older and mature more but, atm she is dead to me.

The 78th · 01-18-2008, 05:49 AM

You should probably just try to explain to her that she's wrong, rather than hating her. She is your mum after all.

01-13-2008, 05:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 469	my brother officially knows! sort of...i think... Well my mom was all blah blah blah and i was all blah blah blah, and he was like five feet away(literally) in a room across the hall, and she was all ''prejudice, worse than being pregnant etc'' and I was all ''get over it there are gays in my year and no1 cares'' and then at one point he walked in, and looked at me for a sec(which NEVER happens) then gave my mom chewing gum or something and left. I'm sure he knows now, but I always thought he kinda knew cos, y'know Britney!, which is why I presumed we seldom talk. Anyway I'm sure enough he knows that I probably won(wow my dad just walked in and he'd kill me for being here)'t confront the situation until I'm in a real relationship __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

01-13-2008, 05:47 PM	#2 (permalink)
DubbLYU Official GTF Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 309	wow, it kinda sucks to get outted when your not the one outting yourself. tough break. i hope all goes well. but, just curious, is your brother older or younger than you? __________________

01-13-2008, 05:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 469	he's 20. It is bad to be outed before being prepared, but in this case it's my own fault and I have no worries of it becoming gossip __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

01-14-2008, 12:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 469	yeah, both my parents have known September14 Christmas 2006. (I remember 'cos its the day after I got my junior cert results, not cos I'm some sorta Robo-cop memory freak ) __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

01-17-2008, 01:37 PM	#7 (permalink)
Call Me Irresponsible Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Warwick, RI, USA Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 49	well... my brother finding out went like this: HIM: (walks in to my room, closes all the doors even though nobody is home, looks at me while i'm at the computer desk.) [Deep and dopey] Dude, uhh, you gay? ME: Uhh... well... yeah, i guess. O.O HIM: Oh, okay, just wanted to let you know i'm coo wit dat. ME: ... that was awkward and badly done. __________________ + + taken by michael ryder - <3 - 2.14.08 + + so listen, you're adorable. you're incredible. you're the greatest thing that's ever happenned to me. everything you do makes me smile. i love seeing you every day of my life, i love getting to be the man in your life. you know that nothing but the best is good enough for me, so that's what you are. the best.

01-14-2008, 11:18 AM	#4 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 779	Does your mum know then?

01-14-2008, 12:37 PM	#6 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 779	I remember the date I came out to my friends because it was my birthday - I think I'm going to work out the date I came out to my parents.

01-17-2008, 03:56 PM	#10 (permalink)
Robthizzle Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sin City Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 137	yuuup i came out to my dad in the 7th grade and he couldnt careless all he cares about is my happyness __________________ get lost www.lost.eu/71f32 www.myspace.com/yaygogay Click Mehhh! Addicted 2 Attention!!!

01-17-2008, 04:15 PM	#11 (permalink)
queerbait/queenscene Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: corona Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 11	i wish my dad were that understanding i still havnt told him and im in ELEVENTH grade hes always been kind of a homophobe my whole life

01-17-2008, 04:48 PM	#13 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 469	you shouldnt be so quick to toss around the word hate. If you hated your mom that much, you'd be mourning the loss of the mom you loved as if she were dead __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

01-17-2008, 04:59 PM	#14 (permalink)
Robthizzle Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sin City Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 137	What? That doesn't make sence. I do hate my mom. Honestly. My views may change as i grow older and mature more but, atm she is dead to me. __________________ get lost www.lost.eu/71f32 www.myspace.com/yaygogay Click Mehhh! Addicted 2 Attention!!!

01-18-2008, 05:49 AM	#15 (permalink)
The 78th Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK, West Sussex, Goring Gender: Posts: 39	You should probably just try to explain to her that she's wrong, rather than hating her. She is your mum after all. __________________

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