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Old 01-28-2008, 06:44 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default so how do you come out to people.......

well, im talking about what exactly do you say when you come out to people? me personally, i hardly ever use the sentence "i'm gay." when i come out to people. i usually say something along the lines of, "i don't like girls" or "i like dudes" or even "dudes are more interesting to me." so what about you guys?
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Old 01-28-2008, 07:24 PM   #2 (permalink)
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here are my top three lol

"uhhh, your barking up the wrong tree."

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"you didn't get the memo?"
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Well, if I were you, don't say anything until people ask. Then tell them you're bisexual - I did that. It sounds better than saying "i'm gay" to people. And then like... after that... everyone'll start to know, and things will be weird for a while, but just be true to yourself. And if a girl asks you out, just tell her that you aren't really bi, but that you're gay and trying to hide it. Then that'll leak slowly, and nobody will really care as much since they already think you're bisexual. Catch my drift? I did this, and it was a surprisingly smooth transition. Hope I helped

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Well, if I were you, don't say anything until people ask. Then tell them you're bisexual - I did that. It sounds better than saying "i'm gay" to people. And then like... after that... everyone'll start to know, and things will be weird for a while, but just be true to yourself. And if a girl asks you out, just tell her that you aren't really bi, but that you're gay and trying to hide it. Then that'll leak slowly, and nobody will really care as much since they already think you're bisexual. Catch my drift? I did this, and it was a surprisingly smooth transition. Hope I helped

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um.......thanks for the advice even though i wasn't exactly asking for any?!? lol! anyway, i don't usually go up to people and come out to them. i wait for people to ask me. which is kinda what you said. thanks though!
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I wait for people to ask me and then I just tell them. But im hardly ever asked lol.
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Well its fairly obvious with me. My personality oozes gay...so when people ask if I'm gay, I'm just like "yeah"
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lol the straight forward and very blunt "I'm gay" is just sooo much fun though
If not for any other reason for the looks on people's faces...
and then they start apologising, for no apparant reason :S
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lol the straight forward and very blunt "I'm gay" is just sooo much fun though
If not for any other reason for the looks on people's faces...
and then they start apologising, for no apparant reason :S
lol, here here!
the second person i told was like that. And she just stared at me for like a minute lol.
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im too afraid to tell many people...but when i do i just say im not into guys
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To be honest, you shouldn't feel pressured to tell anyone. If someone asks, then say yeah I am, but if they don't ask then you have no reason to tell them
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