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02-20-2008, 10:21 AM
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Help BIG PROBLEM!!!
Well i'm new here and i have a big problem. THIS IS NOT A STORY I MADE UP IT IS REALLY HAPPENING TO ME!!!!
Well for the past year and a half now one of my brothers friends(13) has been really touchy i guess u would say. This past summer he sort of got really touchy/curious! Heres a couple of examples: we were swimming on day and my brother and his friend decide to skinny dip (now i don't have a problem with that we're all male so i didn't see a problem) but a little bit later we were playing marco polo and he was it. I went under water to try and see were he was and when i did he was right there in front of me. He had his eyes open and smiled at me then started at me. I knew i was caught so i just sit there and let him tag me but he did something i NEVER thought he would do!! When he tagged me he didn't hit my arm like somebody would normally would he put his hand on my leg and put his hand up my trunks!!  He grabbed my penis and balls before i could pull his hand out. I was really mad  at first but then i had a talk with him and he said that he was just curious so i let him go. But later that day i was laying on the couch watching tv and he came in (still naked) and layed down with his head on the other side of the couch and his feet about my waist line with me under the blanket. I didn't think nothing of it cause we had laid like this before so i continued to watch tv. I ended up falling asleep and thats when it happened. I felt something playing with my penis and it wasn't my hands. He had put his feet in my shorts and started to rub my penis and testicules. He had given me a boner and was pretty much jacking me off with his feet. I pushed his feet out of my shorts and gave him a long talk about being curious about somebody elses's private parts and touching them while they are sleeping and doing it without that person saying it was ok to do it. He told me he was sorry and that we wouldn't do it again. But heres the problem (i know long beginning) i liked when this kid was playing with my penis i felt so good, but i know that it is very very wrong for him to do anything with me. So do i try not to talk to this kid anymore or just control myself and be mature about the situation at hand and help him the best i can with problems that i have already went through??Please don't tell me this is made and stuff I wish i could say this is made up but i can't. And for the record this kids parents have asked me, cause they trust me, to help him with puberty questions and stuff like that. Please don't ban me from this place, this is a real problem and i need help. |
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02-20-2008, 05:58 PM
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Ahahah why would we ban you number 1.
And you'll just have to explain to him, feel free to come to me anytime i'll always be here, but you have to realize.. the age difference is obviously bothersome. Do what is right. He's just curious, let him be. Just not with you, thats all. Tell him if he wants to experiment, he should do so with his friends, and if it's too awkward, then he probably shouldn't be doing it at all right? He doesn't just get off scott free cause its with an older guy. You may like it, but if his parents are implicated with it, they may feel betrayed and not take a liking to you. Personally 13 and 18 is a huge age difference, two hugely different maturity levels. I can't see that working. :\ ahaha im lacking lots of advice at the moment, i'll message back if i think of something else ahah : )
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02-25-2008, 08:02 PM
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Well there was a new situation that came up last weekend. His parents went out of town and they asked me if i would watch him for one night. So i went to his house and i stayed the night there. The night started out alright (surprise surprise he was naked like always no problem there) we watched a movie and played PS3. I went to bed in the guest room (i sleep naked just so you know) and he went to bed in his room. The next morning when i woke up he was laying there right beside me in bed (naked) and it shocked me
. I got up and dressed and gave him another long talk. This time using the ideas that Adrastus gave me. I think that he finally got the picture this time but i don't know. I told him to still come and talk to me any time that he needs help but he needs to control himself when he has urges like touching me or sleeping with me. If you all can think of anything else i can tell him i would greatly be thankful for it. I will keep you all updated on my situation but i think that i have finally got through to him. So thanks again. Please leave any idea if you can think of anything. |
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02-26-2008, 12:36 AM
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No cause they want him to learn from somebody that they trust and that has recently expereniced puberty. So i'm not going to let them down and say hes to much for me. Cause hes sort of like my little brother ( you know a brother from another mother tpye of thing). So telling his parents is out of the question. Thanks though for the thought.
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02-26-2008, 09:22 AM
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If you really want it to stop you've got to be persistent in telling him that you don't want this(unless you do; then there's you're problem.)because obvioulsy after reading the first few stories, it's still happening.
You have to be persistent in telling him what you feel. Because otherwise, the same thing will happen over and over again. (I hope that helps.) Josh |
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