Lose bestfriend for coming out - Page 2

Chicken_Nugg · 02-06-2008, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Mike

Who said being gay was easy?

I was so scared what would happen when my older brother found out about me. Growing up, he would always give me shit and act like I was gay, so I was really defensive of it. He accepted it instantly, and was actually really cool about the whole thing. It was the total opposite of what I was expecting.

I was EXACTLY the same way... i just told my family and friends that im bi and i was extremly scared for my older brother to know becuz he's always cracking gay jokes and what not... but once i told him he said to me that he figured i was bi and he loves me to death nd accepts me... i swear that hadda be the best day ever

oh btw on tellin a bestfriend... wen i told my bestfriend he freaked out! he was like sean u were so good at acting like u didn't like guys wen they had there shirts off... and u kno i told him yea "acting"... he was worried at first becuz im always over at his house and he asked me if i eva had a crush on him... so that was kinda awkward wen he asked me that but in the end were still closer than eva.. if they are ur "bestfriend" than they should undastand you and not judge you in anyway!!

sexyjoshiepoo · 02-06-2008, 07:18 PM

YEA I AGREE...TRUE FRIENDS WOULD LOVE U FOR U...OF CIURSE MY FRIENDS DONT CARE IF IM GAY...AND I LOVE BEING GAY CAUSE U GET ALOT OF GIRLFRIENDS AND CUTE GAY GUYS TOO...BEING GAY IS NOT MUCH EASY CAUSE UR DIFFERENT THEN MOST PPLE BUT YEA IDONT GIVE THE F***k WHAT PPLE THINK OF ME ...ALOT OF GUYS AND GIRLS SAY I LOOK GAY ..SO YEA IF HE IS NOT A TRUE FRIEND THEN JUST DONT TALK TO HIM ANYMORE

sexypandaguy · 02-06-2008, 08:08 PM

ya if they dont want to be your friend just because your diffrent ya... Stuff like this realy tells you who your realy friends are, i mean i told all my fiends iam gay... i turns out alot of my friends are bi so that could have something to do with it...

JakeyBoi · 02-06-2008, 08:48 PM

I lost some close friends when i came out. I didnt need them if they couldnt support me or my decisions. Sry im not that different from people i just like guys and those who arnt my friends anymore they just left me in the dust. If you keep those around you that you know dont accept you decisions then they arnt your true friends. I dont want to say that but its true.

fuckmeplz? · 02-06-2008, 11:48 PM

Yeah I lost all my friends in 7th grade except for the girl ^_^ guys on the east side of aurora illinois are hardly accepting.....most guys would just make fun of u I found rare str-8 guys in my high school who dont care about gay guys...they are alright with it. So if ur guy friends do leave u then u know what....tell them u loved every minute u had with them cause u were pictureing them naked lmao! freak them out so bad lol hahaha but yeah, hetero guys are so hard to deal with some times...

jrussoff · 03-09-2008, 09:46 PM

i know its been a while since the last post but whatever ill put in my two cents

if you consider that person to be a good friend, then you should tell him flat out, don't "test the waters". i'm not saying you should just go up to him and say "im gay" because believe me, i know how hard it is to come out to your friends. but i just feel like if he doesn't accept you for who you are, then you shouldn't be friends anyway. even if he's morally against homosexuality, your friendship should mean more to him. it's understandable if he's confused or shocked and needs a little bit of time but if he just doesn't want to be your friends anymore then he's just a bastard who's not worth wasting time with

George · 03-10-2008, 03:37 PM

Fuck the bastard, I'm just gonna be blunt about this, but you seem like a nice guy, so if he has a problem bollocks to him, anyone that has 'issues' with homosexuality, probably has 'issues' with people of other races and 'issues' with anyone that is not within there immediate social network, why, because they are insecure, and need to bully the world in general to seem hard and tough to attract the attention and admiration of others, its all stone age, so bollocks to those people, besides if they have issues, ask why, could always use the line 'why care about my sexuality, unless you care about me sexually' it works quite well on people you just want to shut up

jrussoff · 03-10-2008, 06:55 PM

haha so true
i just cant handle people who think they're so much more superior to me because of one thing or another and when its just strangers, i really couldnt care less. but what pisses me off a lot is when situations like this happen where you stop being friends with someone because they cant accept you
thank god all my friends are very supportive and have absolutely no problems with my sexuality

theaznway · 03-10-2008, 11:45 PM

If they're a true friend then no, they shouldn't care. They should like you for you, not for your sexual orientation.

03-09-2008, 09:46 PM	#21 (permalink)
jrussoff Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Massachusetts Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 23	i know its been a while since the last post but whatever ill put in my two cents if you consider that person to be a good friend, then you should tell him flat out, don't "test the waters". i'm not saying you should just go up to him and say "im gay" because believe me, i know how hard it is to come out to your friends. but i just feel like if he doesn't accept you for who you are, then you shouldn't be friends anyway. even if he's morally against homosexuality, your friendship should mean more to him. it's understandable if he's confused or shocked and needs a little bit of time but if he just doesn't want to be your friends anymore then he's just a bastard who's not worth wasting time with __________________ i'm a nice kid who's fun to hang out with and i'm always bored so feel free to contact me

03-10-2008, 06:55 PM	#23 (permalink)
jrussoff Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Massachusetts Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 23	haha so true i just cant handle people who think they're so much more superior to me because of one thing or another and when its just strangers, i really couldnt care less. but what pisses me off a lot is when situations like this happen where you stop being friends with someone because they cant accept you thank god all my friends are very supportive and have absolutely no problems with my sexuality __________________ i'm a nice kid who's fun to hang out with and i'm always bored so feel free to contact me

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02-06-2008, 07:18 PM	#17 (permalink)
sexyjoshiepoo Banned Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: lakeside, sandiego Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 113	YEA I AGREE...TRUE FRIENDS WOULD LOVE U FOR U...OF CIURSE MY FRIENDS DONT CARE IF IM GAY...AND I LOVE BEING GAY CAUSE U GET ALOT OF GIRLFRIENDS AND CUTE GAY GUYS TOO...BEING GAY IS NOT MUCH EASY CAUSE UR DIFFERENT THEN MOST PPLE BUT YEA IDONT GIVE THE F***k WHAT PPLE THINK OF ME ...ALOT OF GUYS AND GIRLS SAY I LOOK GAY ..SO YEA IF HE IS NOT A TRUE FRIEND THEN JUST DONT TALK TO HIM ANYMORE

02-06-2008, 08:08 PM	#18 (permalink)
sexypandaguy Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: milwaukee Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 16	ya if they dont want to be your friend just because your diffrent ya... Stuff like this realy tells you who your realy friends are, i mean i told all my fiends iam gay... i turns out alot of my friends are bi so that could have something to do with it...

02-06-2008, 08:48 PM	#19 (permalink)
JakeyBoi Official GTF Member Harpoon Lagoon Champion! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Jersey Baby Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 189	I lost some close friends when i came out. I didnt need them if they couldnt support me or my decisions. Sry im not that different from people i just like guys and those who arnt my friends anymore they just left me in the dust. If you keep those around you that you know dont accept you decisions then they arnt your true friends. I dont want to say that but its true.

02-06-2008, 11:48 PM	#20 (permalink)
fuckmeplz? Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Aurora, Illinois Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 22	Yeah I lost all my friends in 7th grade except for the girl ^_^ guys on the east side of aurora illinois are hardly accepting.....most guys would just make fun of u I found rare str-8 guys in my high school who dont care about gay guys...they are alright with it. So if ur guy friends do leave u then u know what....tell them u loved every minute u had with them cause u were pictureing them naked lmao! freak them out so bad lol hahaha but yeah, hetero guys are so hard to deal with some times...

03-10-2008, 03:37 PM	#22 (permalink)
George Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Chorley Northwest UK Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 166	Fuck the bastard, I'm just gonna be blunt about this, but you seem like a nice guy, so if he has a problem bollocks to him, anyone that has 'issues' with homosexuality, probably has 'issues' with people of other races and 'issues' with anyone that is not within there immediate social network, why, because they are insecure, and need to bully the world in general to seem hard and tough to attract the attention and admiration of others, its all stone age, so bollocks to those people, besides if they have issues, ask why, could always use the line 'why care about my sexuality, unless you care about me sexually' it works quite well on people you just want to shut up

03-10-2008, 11:45 PM	#24 (permalink)
theaznway Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Edmonds, WA Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 68	If they're a true friend then no, they shouldn't care. They should like you for you, not for your sexual orientation.