How old is old enough to have sex

poterfan · 03-18-2008, 03:21 AM

ok here is the thing, i am 14 and my bf who is also my best friend is also 14 and we have been doin stuff like jerking off and stuff since we were like 11, but just since last year we started having anal sex. when i tell alot of people they get all like" you are to young to have sex". I dont hink if two people like each other it should be a big deal to have anal sex what are your guys thoughts

Bandana · 03-18-2008, 03:25 AM

the first time i had a dick in my ass was proly like 12, but it wasnt sex.. he just stuck it in there.. lol. it was awkward.. he oviously wasnt into it (we were both 12), 16 now and i think i would be willing to if the right guy came along, or just a really hot one. : P

**reminiscence** · 03-18-2008, 12:25 PM

i think if your in love, you can have sex, but most ppl mistake lust for love and have sex at 13 and are then scarred

**Adrastus** · 03-18-2008, 01:48 PM

When you are both mature enough to talk about it , and not let it get awkward.

yingyang69 · 03-18-2008, 10:16 PM

i can't get past my envy/ jealousy of you enought to anwser the qustion -_-'

t.A.T.u. · 03-18-2008, 11:34 PM

I can see where you're coming from, but I also can side with the other side (lol) because at your age, you're still really young and do not really know the meaning of love. I mean, I could be wrong, but to actually know what love is, you need to have experienced it enough. Having one relationship, especially if it's your first one, imo, does not give you that kind of experience.

**Bulvox** · 03-19-2008, 02:49 PM

You need to make sure are in love with that person first. I would say no younger than 16.

George · 03-19-2008, 03:54 PM

I say sex is not love, its sex, stop being foolishly romantic, most people will have sex with people they dont love, so it doesn't matter in the long run, if its not rape, then its fine.

kevjoy · 03-19-2008, 04:52 PM

i am 14 and have a boy friend that i have known like all my life, in fact we are like next door neighbors and yeah we have sex and he and i both love it and i dont see a big deal. i am not ready to say he is like the only one i will every do anything with, but i think what we have is cool

03-18-2008, 03:21 AM	#1 (permalink)
poterfan Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: texas Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 9	How old is old enough to have sex ok here is the thing, i am 14 and my bf who is also my best friend is also 14 and we have been doin stuff like jerking off and stuff since we were like 11, but just since last year we started having anal sex. when i tell alot of people they get all like" you are to young to have sex". I dont hink if two people like each other it should be a big deal to have anal sex what are your guys thoughts

03-18-2008, 12:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 473	i think if your in love, you can have sex, but most ppl mistake lust for love and have sex at 13 and are then scarred __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

03-18-2008, 01:48 PM	#4 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 865	When you are both mature enough to talk about it , and not let it get awkward. __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

03-18-2008, 10:16 PM	#5 (permalink)
yingyang69 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 83	i can't get past my envy/ jealousy of you enought to anwser the qustion -_-' __________________ um...im new....so a hi would be appreciated ^_^ and maby some advice

03-18-2008, 11:34 PM	#6 (permalink)
t.A.T.u. Official GTF Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: U.S.A. Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 624	I can see where you're coming from, but I also can side with the other side (lol) because at your age, you're still really young and do not really know the meaning of love. I mean, I could be wrong, but to actually know what love is, you need to have experienced it enough. Having one relationship, especially if it's your first one, imo, does not give you that kind of experience. __________________ t.A.T.u. ~ The Revolution of our Lives ~ t.A.T.u. «Be in love. Be yourself. We are.» ~t.A.T.u. YuLen believer! Watch 220 music video here

03-18-2008, 03:25 AM	#2 (permalink)
Bandana Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Southern Ontario, Canada Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 69	the first time i had a dick in my ass was proly like 12, but it wasnt sex.. he just stuck it in there.. lol. it was awkward.. he oviously wasnt into it (we were both 12), 16 now and i think i would be willing to if the right guy came along, or just a really hot one. : P

03-19-2008, 02:49 PM	#7 (permalink)
Bulvox GTF Administrator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Virginia Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 964	You need to make sure are in love with that person first. I would say no younger than 16. __________________ Help out out a bit! Tell your friends about GTF!

03-19-2008, 03:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
George Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Chorley Northwest UK Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 166	I say sex is not love, its sex, stop being foolishly romantic, most people will have sex with people they dont love, so it doesn't matter in the long run, if its not rape, then its fine.

03-19-2008, 04:52 PM	#9 (permalink)
kevjoy Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: calif Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 46	i am 14 and have a boy friend that i have known like all my life, in fact we are like next door neighbors and yeah we have sex and he and i both love it and i dont see a big deal. i am not ready to say he is like the only one i will every do anything with, but i think what we have is cool

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