Is it wrong...?

Shinigami · 05-25-2008, 02:48 PM

I was wondering if its wrong to lead a completely separate life from what I know. I mean, I act straight at school, but then I'm more open to my closest friends. I only act straight so I won't get looked at funny by people and be teased by random idiots that play "tag" around the playground and haven't *ahem* matured as yet. I know that I'll open up more as I get older, I'm starting by making another Myspace where I can actually be accepted for people that like me. But for the time being, any opinions?

**Adrastus** · 05-25-2008, 03:46 PM

hmm, well. Lets ask the question, do you want to act differntly around school? more femininely? Cause I am very gay, yet act straight around school, and its not to devoid attention. It is how I act, and I will always act. Thats something you should take into consideration. I mean i have my femminley traits, as does every guy.

Once upon a time i thought exactly like you, and thats one of the reasons why i lied to myself about being gay, I couldn't imagine myself acting like a girl and all this crap. To me, its just an attention grabber. (For the feminine people out there, I know it can't be helped, it is who you are

please don't get offended)

I'm not sure what else to say, but feel free to add me to msn if you wanted to talk more mate, you can find it on my profile. Or just feel free to ask another questions.

Shinigami · 05-25-2008, 03:50 PM

Thank you GM Adrastus

wizy123 · 05-28-2008, 06:02 PM

you sound like me while i was growing up. i made two diff. Myspace just because i wanted to get OUT but i still felt like i was trapped within the box of life. my best advise is to do what you feel is most suited. but be verry carful. it is easy to trust someone and have them turn out to be a total ass hole. i am NOT saying dont trust anyone, but be carful. when you are ready for both the good and the bad to happen when you finnally come out be prepaird you will cry at some things people say and be angry. then you will also feel a weight lifted from your shoulders as you realize that you are loved by people who dont care what your sexuality is. and that my friend is the best feeling in the world. pure and utter love. if you want to talk i may not be around this site as much as i want but i am on myspace at wizy1234@yahoo.com.
i hope whatever you do your happy with.

Shinigami · 05-28-2008, 07:02 PM

Awww, Thank you!!! I might come out when I leave school, then, maybe then I can start again..yeah.

05-25-2008, 02:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
Shinigami Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: At the desk Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 223	I was wondering if its wrong to lead a completely separate life from what I know. I mean, I act straight at school, but then I'm more open to my closest friends. I only act straight so I won't get looked at funny by people and be teased by random idiots that play "tag" around the playground and haven't ahem matured as yet. I know that I'll open up more as I get older, I'm starting by making another Myspace where I can actually be accepted for people that like me. But for the time being, any opinions? Last edited by Shinigami; 05-25-2008 at 02:50 PM.

05-25-2008, 03:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 864	hmm, well. Lets ask the question, do you want to act differntly around school? more femininely? Cause I am very gay, yet act straight around school, and its not to devoid attention. It is how I act, and I will always act. Thats something you should take into consideration. I mean i have my femminley traits, as does every guy. Once upon a time i thought exactly like you, and thats one of the reasons why i lied to myself about being gay, I couldn't imagine myself acting like a girl and all this crap. To me, its just an attention grabber. (For the feminine people out there, I know it can't be helped, it is who you are please don't get offended) I'm not sure what else to say, but feel free to add me to msn if you wanted to talk more mate, you can find it on my profile. Or just feel free to ask another questions. __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

05-25-2008, 03:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
Shinigami Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: At the desk Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 223	Thank you GM Adrastus __________________ Kuroi Torikago (Original) - Kanon Wakeshima: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1p0lK_tS5I "Please watch, comment, rate, support and anything else...much thanks" Visit Kanon Wakeshima's Home page: http://www.kanonweb.jp/ Toggle from Japanese to English by clicking the "English page" button.

05-28-2008, 06:02 PM	#4 (permalink)
wizy123 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: happy town.... or i would be if i could find it in my mind...! Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 77	you sound like me while i was growing up. i made two diff. Myspace just because i wanted to get OUT but i still felt like i was trapped within the box of life. my best advise is to do what you feel is most suited. but be verry carful. it is easy to trust someone and have them turn out to be a total ass hole. i am NOT saying dont trust anyone, but be carful. when you are ready for both the good and the bad to happen when you finnally come out be prepaird you will cry at some things people say and be angry. then you will also feel a weight lifted from your shoulders as you realize that you are loved by people who dont care what your sexuality is. and that my friend is the best feeling in the world. pure and utter love. if you want to talk i may not be around this site as much as i want but i am on myspace at wizy1234@yahoo.com. i hope whatever you do your happy with. __________________ looks around helplessly im lost in a sea of sadness, waiting for my prince to save me. waiting for... visit me cityz manz http://happytown-ca.myminicity.com

05-28-2008, 07:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
Shinigami Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: At the desk Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 223	Awww, Thank you!!! I might come out when I leave school, then, maybe then I can start again..yeah. __________________ Kuroi Torikago (Original) - Kanon Wakeshima: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1p0lK_tS5I "Please watch, comment, rate, support and anything else...much thanks" Visit Kanon Wakeshima's Home page: http://www.kanonweb.jp/ Toggle from Japanese to English by clicking the "English page" button.

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