Who wants kids? - Page 2

t.A.T.u. · 06-16-2008, 10:42 PM

I've always wanted kids (identical twins, preferably boys cuz they're easier to raise over girls, so I've heard) but lately I've been around too many bratty kids and it's made me change my mind. Plus, being gay, having twins is highly unlikely.

So unless I get a bf who really wants kids, I'm going to say no that I don't want any.

xypowerpop · 06-17-2008, 01:19 AM

I wouldn't mind having kids when I'm in my 30s.

I really hate most kids these days though simply because they raise them to be brats and then they grow up to become annoying teenagers and annoying adults. I'd raise my kids right.

make out kid · 06-17-2008, 02:44 AM

ewww kids, they'll spit up all over my clothes, and that wont do

rileycoyote · 06-17-2008, 05:23 AM

I think I'll be a lot stricter with my kids ... but I'm grounded right now, so I think my parents are plenty strict enough

TommyBoy · 06-20-2008, 11:14 PM

I have mixed feelings myself when kids get brough up in conversation.. I'm only 22 and my partner is going to be 27. We both in a way want kids but not to sound selfish we don't want to be held back from doing the things in life we are wanting to do... traveling, going on cruises, camping in the mountains(well not so much the camping one) but you know what I mean!

If we were to adopt I think I would probably want a boy.. even if we had a girl I think either way the child would definatly get spoiled.. theres no better look then seeing a childs face on christmas day!

I Like Guys · 06-22-2008, 05:12 PM

i'd have to be completely established and have a long-term partner (maybe husband by then) ... the only thing is i'd have too high of expectations for my kid (i'd only want 1) ... and i'd definitely use a surrogate mom because my kid would have to have my genes

oh, and as far as my dad goes - i haven't talked to him since i came out ... i never told him, my sister did, and he tries to call me but i blocked his number ... he moved to kansas (and i live in ohio) and he's a red neck republican piece of white trash ... he always got upset when i would visit him (i visited on weekends when he lived in ohio) because i always corrected his grammar and his son's grammar (my half-brother) AND he would get mad at the fact that i talked the way i do because, according to him, people who "use big words" and "speak with proper grammar" think they're better than everyone else

- he always had a problem especially when my mom got married to a guy that makes a lot more money than my dad and he'd always make remarks about how people that have more money think they're better than other people ... i hate that dumb ass

- oh, and to top it off, my brother and sister (5 and 6 yrs older than me) always try to tell me how i'm so horrible for hurting dad and stuff and it's like omg just mind ur own business ... like 2 weeks before father's day, my mom made ME the party planner for my stepdad's surprise party (because i wanted to plan it), so i did everything and made sure everyone was going to bring what i needed them to bring ... so on the day of the party (sunday) i was setting everything up and then my sister was all like "did u guys call dad yet??!" and then my brother came in and was like "DYLAN won't talk to dad because he doesn't want him to know he's gay!" and then it just got worse from there, so i was like barely able to get the party ready before my parents got home from our house in new york -- so basically, if i was a dad, i would have to make sure not to be a suck-ass dad like mine

Chicken_Nugg · 06-22-2008, 06:59 PM

i want kids but i wanna adopt... i dont actually want a son related to me.. dont ask why.. lol

rileycoyote · 06-22-2008, 07:13 PM

If there was a medical breakthrough that made it possible for men to have kids, I would definitely let my husband carry a baby

Chicken_Nugg · 06-22-2008, 07:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rileycoyote

If there was a medical breakthrough that made it possible for men to have kids, I would definitely let my husband carry a baby

lol ur husband? how come u wont carry it?..

BrokenWingsXXX · 06-22-2008, 09:13 PM

I'm kinda thinking of kids in the future. If I have a boy, he will be named Lucifer, if a girl, Naelee. I love those names <3

I Like Guys · 06-22-2008, 11:41 PM

i would want it to be related to me because who knows what excuse they'll come up with to deny me my parental rights otherwise

06-16-2008, 10:42 PM	#16 (permalink)
t.A.T.u. Official GTF Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: U.S.A. Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 593	I've always wanted kids (identical twins, preferably boys cuz they're easier to raise over girls, so I've heard) but lately I've been around too many bratty kids and it's made me change my mind. Plus, being gay, having twins is highly unlikely. So unless I get a bf who really wants kids, I'm going to say no that I don't want any. __________________ t.A.T.u. ~ The Revolution of our Lives ~ t.A.T.u. «Be in love. Be yourself. We are.» ~t.A.T.u. YuLen believer! Watch 220 music video here

06-20-2008, 11:14 PM	#20 (permalink)
TommyBoy Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Edmonton, Alberta Age: 22 Gender: Posts: 6	I have mixed feelings myself when kids get brough up in conversation.. I'm only 22 and my partner is going to be 27. We both in a way want kids but not to sound selfish we don't want to be held back from doing the things in life we are wanting to do... traveling, going on cruises, camping in the mountains(well not so much the camping one) but you know what I mean! If we were to adopt I think I would probably want a boy.. even if we had a girl I think either way the child would definatly get spoiled.. theres no better look then seeing a childs face on christmas day! __________________ *~TommyBoy~*

06-22-2008, 05:12 PM	#21 (permalink)
I Like Guys Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 114	i'd have to be completely established and have a long-term partner (maybe husband by then) ... the only thing is i'd have too high of expectations for my kid (i'd only want 1) ... and i'd definitely use a surrogate mom because my kid would have to have my genes oh, and as far as my dad goes - i haven't talked to him since i came out ... i never told him, my sister did, and he tries to call me but i blocked his number ... he moved to kansas (and i live in ohio) and he's a red neck republican piece of white trash ... he always got upset when i would visit him (i visited on weekends when he lived in ohio) because i always corrected his grammar and his son's grammar (my half-brother) AND he would get mad at the fact that i talked the way i do because, according to him, people who "use big words" and "speak with proper grammar" think they're better than everyone else - he always had a problem especially when my mom got married to a guy that makes a lot more money than my dad and he'd always make remarks about how people that have more money think they're better than other people ... i hate that dumb ass - oh, and to top it off, my brother and sister (5 and 6 yrs older than me) always try to tell me how i'm so horrible for hurting dad and stuff and it's like omg just mind ur own business ... like 2 weeks before father's day, my mom made ME the party planner for my stepdad's surprise party (because i wanted to plan it), so i did everything and made sure everyone was going to bring what i needed them to bring ... so on the day of the party (sunday) i was setting everything up and then my sister was all like "did u guys call dad yet??!" and then my brother came in and was like "DYLAN won't talk to dad because he doesn't want him to know he's gay!" and then it just got worse from there, so i was like barely able to get the party ready before my parents got home from our house in new york -- so basically, if i was a dad, i would have to make sure not to be a suck-ass dad like mine __________________ This life is way too short to get caught up in all this stuff when I just want you to love me back! Why can't you just love me back?! Last edited by I Like Guys; 06-22-2008 at 05:26 PM.

06-22-2008, 09:13 PM	#25 (permalink)
BrokenWingsXXX Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Canada, BC Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 74	I'm kinda thinking of kids in the future. If I have a boy, he will be named Lucifer, if a girl, Naelee. I love those names <3 __________________

06-22-2008, 11:41 PM	#26 (permalink)
I Like Guys Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 114	i would want it to be related to me because who knows what excuse they'll come up with to deny me my parental rights otherwise __________________ This life is way too short to get caught up in all this stuff when I just want you to love me back! Why can't you just love me back?!

06-17-2008, 01:19 AM	#17 (permalink)
xypowerpop Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: United States Gender: Posts: 89	I wouldn't mind having kids when I'm in my 30s. I really hate most kids these days though simply because they raise them to be brats and then they grow up to become annoying teenagers and annoying adults. I'd raise my kids right.

06-17-2008, 02:44 AM	#18 (permalink)
make out kid Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: leeds Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 175	ewww kids, they'll spit up all over my clothes, and that wont do

06-17-2008, 05:23 AM	#19 (permalink)
rileycoyote Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Baltimore, MD Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 553	I think I'll be a lot stricter with my kids ... but I'm grounded right now, so I think my parents are plenty strict enough

06-22-2008, 06:59 PM	#22 (permalink)
Chicken_Nugg Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Tacoma, Washington Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 162	i want kids but i wanna adopt... i dont actually want a son related to me.. dont ask why.. lol

06-22-2008, 07:13 PM	#23 (permalink)
rileycoyote Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Baltimore, MD Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 553	If there was a medical breakthrough that made it possible for men to have kids, I would definitely let my husband carry a baby

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