guy0680

I'm sure most of you that have read my other thread know my situation, but to summarize real quick: I am a closeted bisexual and I have just came out to my first gay crush, who has come out to me, but is trying to stay in closet at work.

Rumors and gossip of him has pretty much spread throughout the store unfortunately, which I have been trying my best to stop, squash and put as many of them to rest for him as I can. The guy is lucky he has the "King" of the Gossip Mill at work (me!) on his side, but it has gotten to wide spread

My crush (my feelings aside) is a really great guy, who helps other people at work do their jobs, when he really doesn't have too....and never gets a lot of people doing favors for him, which pisses me off too.

Well to my question...one of the people he helps says homophobic things about him behind his back (*BELIEVE ME WHEN/IF HE SAYS SOMETHING AROUND ME I'LL SAY SOMETHING*)...and it KILLS me to see him have the audacity to ask him for favors later on.

Should I tell him about how he talks about him, and that he probably shouldn't help him anymore if hes going to talk about him.....or should I just keep him in the dark, so he won't get upset, and just say something to him myself when I here him saying it??

jspoons1293

Tell him.

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Bulvox

Tell him, I would want someone to tell me if they were using me.

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