Small question, please respond kthx

schmooo · 07-20-2008, 03:40 AM

Now I'm not yet out of the closet, and I want to keep it that way for about 2 years until I graduate and have my own life so my parents can hate me then. Okay, so like with my guy-friends that are straight, they sometimes talk about girls in a sexual way, and I'm there without anything to say and very nervous. SO, question is, what type of things do I say when my friends are talking about girls (like looks and what I want in my mouth), and how to say it, how to basically act, etc.

thx for the help ^^

Mike · 07-20-2008, 11:15 AM

Don't say anything. Or if they ask .. just say "it's for me to know and you to wonder."

guy0680 · 07-20-2008, 12:54 PM

I'm 20, totally in the closet so I'm in your boat..Granted I think I am bi because I can and have hooked up with girls, I find them attractive...I don't think me and my friends have ever gotten that graphic lol ...besides like "Oh god I want to Fuck her" or "Look at her I just wanna bend her over" or something

I guess you could just agree or make comments like "Oh god, so do I" or "That'd be sick/chill/awesome" or something.

Or if you don't want to lie just say vague things like "Oh I'd do things you wouldn't even imagine." ...they don't have to know that the things would be going shopping, gossiping and such

jk

**Adrastus** · 07-20-2008, 05:11 PM

Be the subtle guy that just looks at girls... lol, thats what i am at work.
All of my co-workers (there are a lot) always catch me looking at girls.. even though i'm not ahahaha, I am just looking in that direction.. they like to be like "atta boy matt, looking can't harm anything!" and "Man, you're sly.. look at you go"

I think its funny cause if only they knew..

exposure36 · 07-21-2008, 09:50 PM

i have a whole bunch of friends that are like that and i really dont say anything but when they do ask me something im like "uhhh, ya that sounds crazy". it just sucks!!!

jspoons1293 · 07-21-2008, 10:45 PM

or you could just act like i do...

Them: "man i'd love to tap that... what about you daniel?"

Me: "umm..." *acts like he's thinking about different scenarios* "...dunno."

outcast · 07-22-2008, 01:09 AM

I basically just agree, then say she is hot or something.

gayboy18252 · 07-22-2008, 11:26 AM

ok I have that happen to me alot. most of my friends are straight and they try to get my str8 but it isnt gonna work. but just to make them happy I say stuff like. I am gay but I would tap that. but not really meaning it.

07-20-2008, 03:40 AM	#1 (permalink)
schmooo Official GTF Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Gender: Posts: 1	Small question, please respond kthx Now I'm not yet out of the closet, and I want to keep it that way for about 2 years until I graduate and have my own life so my parents can hate me then. Okay, so like with my guy-friends that are straight, they sometimes talk about girls in a sexual way, and I'm there without anything to say and very nervous. SO, question is, what type of things do I say when my friends are talking about girls (like looks and what I want in my mouth), and how to say it, how to basically act, etc. thx for the help ^^

07-20-2008, 05:11 PM	#4 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 864	Be the subtle guy that just looks at girls... lol, thats what i am at work. All of my co-workers (there are a lot) always catch me looking at girls.. even though i'm not ahahaha, I am just looking in that direction.. they like to be like "atta boy matt, looking can't harm anything!" and "Man, you're sly.. look at you go" I think its funny cause if only they knew.. __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

07-21-2008, 10:45 PM	#6 (permalink)
jspoons1293 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Shaker Hts, OH Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 415	or you could just act like i do... Them: "man i'd love to tap that... what about you daniel?" Me: "umm..." acts like he's thinking about different scenarios "...dunno." __________________ "Is it bright where you are? Have the people changed? Does it make you happy you're so strange?" --Smashing Pumpkins, "The Beginning is the End is the Beginning"

07-22-2008, 01:09 AM	#7 (permalink)
outcast Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: California Gender: Posts: 75	I basically just agree, then say she is hot or something. __________________ "This is my face covered in freckles with the occasional spot and some veins. This is my body covered in skin and not all of it you can see." -Mouthwash by Kate Nash

07-22-2008, 11:26 AM	#8 (permalink)
gayboy18252 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Tamaqua, Pa Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 46	ok I have that happen to me alot. most of my friends are straight and they try to get my str8 but it isnt gonna work. but just to make them happy I say stuff like. I am gay but I would tap that. but not really meaning it. __________________ ~Bryan~

07-20-2008, 11:15 AM	#2 (permalink)
Mike Official GTF Member Tetris Champion! Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: California Age: 22 Gender: Posts: 343	Don't say anything. Or if they ask .. just say "it's for me to know and you to wonder."

07-20-2008, 12:54 PM	#3 (permalink)
guy0680 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Gender: Posts: 60	I'm 20, totally in the closet so I'm in your boat..Granted I think I am bi because I can and have hooked up with girls, I find them attractive...I don't think me and my friends have ever gotten that graphic lol ...besides like "Oh god I want to Fuck her" or "Look at her I just wanna bend her over" or something I guess you could just agree or make comments like "Oh god, so do I" or "That'd be sick/chill/awesome" or something. Or if you don't want to lie just say vague things like "Oh I'd do things you wouldn't even imagine." ...they don't have to know that the things would be going shopping, gossiping and such jk

07-21-2008, 09:50 PM	#5 (permalink)
exposure36 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New york city Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 117	i have a whole bunch of friends that are like that and i really dont say anything but when they do ask me something im like "uhhh, ya that sounds crazy". it just sucks!!!

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