I Hate People Who Hate "Flamers" - Page 3

DubbLYU · 01-02-2008, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Impeach My Bush

See, that's fine. You can have preferences. I just don't see the point in kicking a guy off of the date-able list just because he's in to Madonna and shopping or whatever.

well, its not necessarily that, it's just that if a person has certain mannerisms that you find unattractive, then why would you even consider dating the person?

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Originally Posted by Impeach My Bush

OK I'm going to spell this out:

A woman is supposed to have sex with a man

When a man has sex with a man, he is taking on the woman's role

ergo, the man is following feminine behaviour patterns.

i still disagree with that statement. yes, biologically men and women are designed to reproduce with one another. however, if two men sleep with one another there is nothing feminine about it. there is no female and a lot of the stuff that they do, a man and a woman never could do together.

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Originally Posted by Impeach My Bush

I don't see why my statement is so controversial. It's like you're all scared of the insinuation that you aren't masculine, is this forums membership comprised of the High School Football Team or something? Typical masculine insecurity.

no. however, it seems like you are uncomfortable with yourself and that in order to make up for it, you are trying to place every gay male into the same small box as you.

Impeach My Bush · 01-05-2008, 01:49 AM

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no. however, it seems like you are uncomfortable with yourself and that in order to make up for it, you are trying to place every gay male into the same small box as you.

Please, quote me on that.

**reminiscence** · 01-05-2008, 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Impeach My Bush

Please, quote me on that.

we already do

Impeach My Bush · 01-05-2008, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by reminiscence

we already do

No, I mean find me the exact quote were I said that. Otherwise you're just putting words in my mouth.

<needlessly patronising emoticon here>

boybj · 01-05-2008, 06:30 PM

why dont we all just have a nice big cup of tea and stfu rather than killin each other?

(best to lock this now

)

DubbLYU · 01-05-2008, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Impeach My Bush

No, I mean find me the exact quote were I said that. Otherwise you're just putting words in my mouth.

<needlessly patronising emoticon here>

i didn't say that's what you said. that's just what i'm inferring from your posts.

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Originally Posted by boybj

why dont we all just have a nice big cup of tea and stfu rather than killin each other?

(best to lock this now )

it's a debate. that's what message boards are for. we're not killing each other.

boybj · 01-06-2008, 10:58 AM

its turning into more than a debate here, im sure some of teh others think so too, i jus odnt want this all gettin outa hand

**reminiscence** · 01-06-2008, 11:13 AM

online debates are never IN hand. I can see where you're coming from, but my advice Boybj, is stay outta the crossfire

DubbLYU · 01-06-2008, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by reminiscence

online debates are never IN hand. I can see where you're coming from, but my advice Boybj, is stay outta the crossfire

agreed.

Blexicano · 01-06-2008, 05:15 PM

I knowz a lil late in all but it got my attention, so i just want to say a few things not to make anyone mad or disagree.

when someone says there "straight acting" mostly means there actions are something you would see a straight guy do,please correct me if im wrong.
I talk about this part because i could be seen as both because its just part of me being me i can be the worls most straight acting guy but at the same time be called "Fairy" etc.
But to say you hate those that are "straight acting gays" is kinda bad yet again correct me if im wrong really this time, but all the gays that ive ran into that claim being straight acting are sometimes the ones that play the role of "Top, the one in charge" and isnt that what most of us want?
BBUT! like i said correct me if im worng ^.^.

DubbLYU · 01-06-2008, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Blexicano

I knowz a lil late in all but it got my attention, so i just want to say a few things not to make anyone mad or disagree.

when someone says there "straight acting" mostly means there actions are something you would see a straight guy do,please correct me if im wrong.
I talk about this part because i could be seen as both because its just part of me being me i can be the worls most straight acting guy but at the same time be called "Fairy" etc.
But to say you hate those that are "straight acting gays" is kinda bad yet again correct me if im wrong really this time, but all the gays that ive ran into that claim being straight acting are sometimes the ones that play the role of "Top, the one in charge" and isnt that what most of us want?
BBUT! like i said correct me if im worng ^.^.

sorry, i gotta put the buzzer on that one. lol! well......part of it at least. anyway, you're right, when a person uses the term "straight-acting" they're referring to the way that they carry themselves. they have characteristics and mannerisms that are more stereotypically associated with straight guys.

but, this is the part that i disagree with. the term "straight-acting" does not signify what role a guy plays in the bedroom. he could be top, bottom, versatile, or none of the above. mannerisms don't necessarily tell you somebody's position in the bedroom.

Blexicano · 01-06-2008, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by DubbLYU

sorry, i gotta put the buzzer on that one. lol! well......part of it at least. anyway, you're right, when a person uses the term "straight-acting" they're referring to the way that they carry themselves. they have characteristics and mannerisms that are more stereotypically associated with straight guys.

but, this is the part that i disagree with. the term "straight-acting" does not signify what role a guy plays in the bedroom. he could be top, bottom, versatile, or none of the above. mannerisms don't necessarily tell you somebody's position in the bedroom.

thanks for the clear up ^.^
i agree with you on the last part im not good with explaning things right from my head and just typing it down.. lol things usally come out wrong.

DubbLYU · 01-06-2008, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Blexicano

thanks for the clear up ^.^
i agree with you on the last part im not good with explaning things right from my head and just typing it down.. lol things usally come out wrong.

it's cool. welcome to the forums man.

Blexicano · 01-06-2008, 05:54 PM

^.^ thanks alot. =)

theaznway · 01-06-2008, 06:00 PM

jeez, i like guys but i'm not a "flamer"...i don't TRY to act straight, it's just the way i act...same with flamers, they don't TRY to act like flamers. I like guys but I'm still in touch with being masculine, because that's the way I was brought up and I can't change that. but i'm 100% out of the closet, i have a boyfriend, i'm in my high school's GSA, there is no way in hell that I am ashamed of being gay. I think most people, flamer or not, are not going to be willing to change how they act because of how "out" they are, if that makes sense.

just my contribution =]

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01-06-2008, 10:58 AM	#37 (permalink)
boybj Official GTF Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Gender: Posts: 215	its turning into more than a debate here, im sure some of teh others think so too, i jus odnt want this all gettin outa hand

01-06-2008, 05:15 PM	#40 (permalink)
Blexicano Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Wisconsin Gender: Posts: 29	I knowz a lil late in all but it got my attention, so i just want to say a few things not to make anyone mad or disagree. when someone says there "straight acting" mostly means there actions are something you would see a straight guy do,please correct me if im wrong. I talk about this part because i could be seen as both because its just part of me being me i can be the worls most straight acting guy but at the same time be called "Fairy" etc. But to say you hate those that are "straight acting gays" is kinda bad yet again correct me if im wrong really this time, but all the gays that ive ran into that claim being straight acting are sometimes the ones that play the role of "Top, the one in charge" and isnt that what most of us want? BBUT! like i said correct me if im worng ^.^.

01-06-2008, 05:54 PM	#44 (permalink)
Blexicano Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Wisconsin Gender: Posts: 29	^.^ thanks alot. =)

01-06-2008, 06:00 PM	#45 (permalink)
theaznway Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Edmonds, WA Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 68	jeez, i like guys but i'm not a "flamer"...i don't TRY to act straight, it's just the way i act...same with flamers, they don't TRY to act like flamers. I like guys but I'm still in touch with being masculine, because that's the way I was brought up and I can't change that. but i'm 100% out of the closet, i have a boyfriend, i'm in my high school's GSA, there is no way in hell that I am ashamed of being gay. I think most people, flamer or not, are not going to be willing to change how they act because of how "out" they are, if that makes sense. just my contribution =]