age diffrence

sexypandaguy · 03-02-2008, 09:23 PM

i recently fallen for this cute guy. the only problem is hes 23 but iam 18 now but still thats a 5 year diffrence. Is 5 years kind of a big age difference? and whats the oldest guy u ever been with?

**Adrastus** · 03-02-2008, 10:09 PM

Age is only a number - so long as you can get along and get past this "number" then be my guest. You are both of legal age - you have nothing to worry about mate. Just be careful and don't be foolish. Heed this advice for any relationship you may become part of, whether they are younger older or your mere peer.

Frances · 03-03-2008, 01:34 PM

Adrastus is right age is just a number. as long has you think it is actually worth it and you not going to get easily hurt. then go for it...

AndreHasDied. · 03-21-2008, 06:37 PM

if age difference bothers you then don't go for it but if not then go ahead.

Silent · 03-26-2008, 11:36 PM

I think its fine.

bibutbabyigetit · 03-27-2008, 04:21 PM

It's fine if you're both legal and there's an age difference. There are obvious problems otherwise.

Plastic · 03-30-2008, 11:12 AM

It's fine, but only if you're both comfortable with it.

Bandana · 03-30-2008, 02:37 PM

I think its perfectly fine, my straight friend has been dating his girlfriend for 3 years now and they are 5 years apart. I dont think 5 years is that much. It really depends what the ages are I think.. Like a 17 and 12 yo shouldn't be dating.. but a 20 and 25 yo.. thats just normal.. I think since your 17.. you can make the right decision.

t.A.T.u. · 03-30-2008, 10:03 PM

I see no problem with it at all.

theaznway · 03-31-2008, 02:24 PM

once you reach like 15, a 5 year difference (being older than you of course) isn't really a big deal in my opinion.

deni_kaos · 04-11-2008, 12:48 AM

well, as long as youre a legal adult it shouldnt be a problem...

personally, that is too old for me, but again, that's just me

it is kinda bothersome if you were like 16 or 17... then youre kinda breaking the law...

Seth · 04-14-2008, 12:31 PM

Depends on the age of the youngest one. I think thats a fine age difference, its just a case of whether you meet on the same maturity levels.

aafreund90 · 05-07-2008, 08:01 AM

This is sort of ironic. I'm dealing with that same dilemma, but the only difference is that I'm 17 and he's 22. He's really cute though. I know what I should do and I know what I want to do. I only wish that I could do the smart thing and walk away before I get hurt, but the only reason that I'm not going to is because this is a learning experience. Don't get me wrong I don't want to get hurt, but my passion is over powering my judgement.

You should do what ever your heart tells you to do, but what ever you decide to do just make sure your prepared to be ready for what ever is to come from it.

mwsk91 · 05-07-2008, 05:44 PM

Legal consent is 16 so if your 16 you can date anyone older than you, but dating someone 5 years younger than you would not be that bad, as long as you dont have sex. Unless you are a sex maniac and have to have sex with everyone you date, which you hopefully, for your sake, are not.

baralaius · 05-10-2008, 09:59 AM

i think age diferances can be any size as long as there not old enough to be you perant(including teenage but excluding early bloomers) so about 13-14 years max

03-02-2008, 09:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
sexypandaguy Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: milwaukee Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 16	age diffrence i recently fallen for this cute guy. the only problem is hes 23 but iam 18 now but still thats a 5 year diffrence. Is 5 years kind of a big age difference? and whats the oldest guy u ever been with?

03-02-2008, 10:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 840	Age is only a number - so long as you can get along and get past this "number" then be my guest. You are both of legal age - you have nothing to worry about mate. Just be careful and don't be foolish. Heed this advice for any relationship you may become part of, whether they are younger older or your mere peer. __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

03-21-2008, 06:37 PM	#4 (permalink)
AndreHasDied. Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: a hellhole in New York Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 10	if age difference bothers you then don't go for it but if not then go ahead. __________________ Myspace.com/Coded_by_god

03-27-2008, 04:21 PM	#6 (permalink)
bibutbabyigetit Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Gender: Posts: 21	It's fine if you're both legal and there's an age difference. There are obvious problems otherwise. __________________ The screen name says it all. Desperate attention seeker with a penchant for theatre queen.

03-30-2008, 11:12 AM	#7 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 710	It's fine, but only if you're both comfortable with it. __________________

03-03-2008, 01:34 PM	#3 (permalink)
Frances Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Gender: Posts: 2	Adrastus is right age is just a number. as long has you think it is actually worth it and you not going to get easily hurt. then go for it...

03-26-2008, 11:36 PM	#5 (permalink)
Silent Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Under your bed. Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 99	I think its fine.

03-30-2008, 02:37 PM	#8 (permalink)
Bandana Official GTF Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Southern Ontario, Canada Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 51	I think its perfectly fine, my straight friend has been dating his girlfriend for 3 years now and they are 5 years apart. I dont think 5 years is that much. It really depends what the ages are I think.. Like a 17 and 12 yo shouldn't be dating.. but a 20 and 25 yo.. thats just normal.. I think since your 17.. you can make the right decision.

03-30-2008, 10:03 PM	#9 (permalink)
t.A.T.u. Official GTF Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: U.S.A. Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 428	I see no problem with it at all. __________________ t.A.T.u. ~ The Revolution of our Lives ~ t.A.T.u. Watch 220 music video here

03-31-2008, 02:24 PM	#10 (permalink)
theaznway Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Edmonds, WA Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 66	once you reach like 15, a 5 year difference (being older than you of course) isn't really a big deal in my opinion.

04-11-2008, 12:48 AM	#11 (permalink)
deni_kaos Official GTF Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: california Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 214	well, as long as youre a legal adult it shouldnt be a problem... personally, that is too old for me, but again, that's just me it is kinda bothersome if you were like 16 or 17... then youre kinda breaking the law... __________________ (^_^)

04-14-2008, 12:31 PM	#12 (permalink)
Seth Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: manchestaaaaaoor Gender: Posts: 766	Depends on the age of the youngest one. I think thats a fine age difference, its just a case of whether you meet on the same maturity levels. __________________ myspace.com/kthxdan

05-07-2008, 08:01 AM	#13 (permalink)
aafreund90 Official GTF Member Simon Champion! Great Mahjong: Classic Champion! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Laytonsville, MD Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 93	This is sort of ironic. I'm dealing with that same dilemma, but the only difference is that I'm 17 and he's 22. He's really cute though. I know what I should do and I know what I want to do. I only wish that I could do the smart thing and walk away before I get hurt, but the only reason that I'm not going to is because this is a learning experience. Don't get me wrong I don't want to get hurt, but my passion is over powering my judgement. You should do what ever your heart tells you to do, but what ever you decide to do just make sure your prepared to be ready for what ever is to come from it. __________________ I love to love. I dream to dream. I once again dream to love you.

05-07-2008, 05:44 PM	#14 (permalink)
mwsk91 Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Shaker Heights, Ohio Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 20	Legal consent is 16 so if your 16 you can date anyone older than you, but dating someone 5 years younger than you would not be that bad, as long as you dont have sex. Unless you are a sex maniac and have to have sex with everyone you date, which you hopefully, for your sake, are not.

05-10-2008, 09:59 AM	#15 (permalink)
baralaius Official GTF Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Southampton-Hampshire-UK Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 53	i think age diferances can be any size as long as there not old enough to be you perant(including teenage but excluding early bloomers) so about 13-14 years max

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