AdamP

Right well, about 6 months ago i went out with this guy that i really liked, and I still do, but i broke up with him because we live a fair distance apart, and he's come to see me a few times and we ended up making out and stuff, but now he has a boyfriend and has had for a few months. and last week he said he needed to have a "personal chat" with me about feelings and stuff, then a few days ago he told me that he thinks he still loves me and needs to see me, to see how he feels when he's with me. and I don't know wat to say if he does say he does loves me, and wat to do if he says that, cus i do still love him but the last thing i want is to break them up so that we can have another long distance reliationship, im soo lost

Ringo Ichijo

oh gosh... i suppose the most logical thing to say, in my opinion, is follow your gut-feeling. i understand the long-distance thing. it sucks a lot. and it's really difficult. but if you think it could work, go for it! you've got nothing to lose! if this guy really loves you, then it could be a beautiful thing! after all, you won't be sixteen forever. even if you can't see eachother everyday, it could get easier if it lasts.

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Alyosha

My only concern would be, that if he's one to so easily follow his heart like that, what's to stop him from following his heart to some other guy if you two got back together? :X Otherwise I'd go for it.

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