Sad to the fact I can't get over him

StarGazinVirgo69 · 05-20-2008, 04:23 PM

its really sad I mean we went out for a year and he was a total dick to me he always treated me like shit and i did everything for him but got no thanxs for it. we ended up leaving eachother but then started talking again untill a month ago when he said some really hurtful stuff and we got into a major fight that ended with some nasty shit being said (not to mention a baseball bat to his car) and I beat myself up for it cuz for some odd reason I'm still thinking about him even though i should have just forgotten about him...I still love him but it's like y? idk im just so sick of the bull w.e

**Bulvox** · 05-20-2008, 09:05 PM

Well there isn't much you can do except give it time. I wouldn't recommend giving him anymore chances because you will most likely end up getting yourself hurt again. The only thing you can do is move on. I know it's not the easiest thing to do, but you can't spend your life trying to make things better with this person if they will betray you again.

Joshy Squashy · 05-21-2008, 09:52 AM

It"s clinically proven with some psycologhical tests

(We all know they're completely true)

that it takes at least half of the amounted time spent with another in a relationship to finally start losing feelings for them if not longer.

it also depends on how well your realationship was.

I know how that must feel though. the same thing happend with an Ex named Joey.

Josh

StarGazinVirgo69 · 05-22-2008, 04:01 PM

the thing isit has been at least half the time since we've been together but after that he started talking to me again idk maybe that ignited feelings agin idk im just so blah now

greenskittles · 05-23-2008, 12:17 AM

the only way to do it is to stop thinking about him (i know its hard) you just have to force yourself to think about something else whenever you find yourself starting to think about him

05-20-2008, 04:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
StarGazinVirgo69 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Cranston RI Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 19	Sad to the fact I can't get over him its really sad I mean we went out for a year and he was a total dick to me he always treated me like shit and i did everything for him but got no thanxs for it. we ended up leaving eachother but then started talking again untill a month ago when he said some really hurtful stuff and we got into a major fight that ended with some nasty shit being said (not to mention a baseball bat to his car) and I beat myself up for it cuz for some odd reason I'm still thinking about him even though i should have just forgotten about him...I still love him but it's like y? idk im just so sick of the bull w.e __________________ KyRY<3

05-20-2008, 09:05 PM	#2 (permalink)
Bulvox GTF Administrator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Virginia Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 996	Well there isn't much you can do except give it time. I wouldn't recommend giving him anymore chances because you will most likely end up getting yourself hurt again. The only thing you can do is move on. I know it's not the easiest thing to do, but you can't spend your life trying to make things better with this person if they will betray you again. __________________ Help out out a bit! Tell your friends about GTF! Have a problem? Or a question about the site? - Contact Us

05-22-2008, 04:01 PM	#4 (permalink)
StarGazinVirgo69 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Cranston RI Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 19	the thing isit has been at least half the time since we've been together but after that he started talking to me again idk maybe that ignited feelings agin idk im just so blah now __________________ KyRY<3

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05-21-2008, 09:52 AM	#3 (permalink)
Joshy Squashy Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Aurora, CO Gender: Posts: 254	It"s clinically proven with some psycologhical tests (We all know they're completely true) that it takes at least half of the amounted time spent with another in a relationship to finally start losing feelings for them if not longer. it also depends on how well your realationship was. I know how that must feel though. the same thing happend with an Ex named Joey. Josh

05-23-2008, 12:17 AM	#5 (permalink)
greenskittles Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Toronto Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 69	the only way to do it is to stop thinking about him (i know its hard) you just have to force yourself to think about something else whenever you find yourself starting to think about him