most of u mite think im a total slut aftr reading this

queerbait/queenscene · 01-17-2008, 04:32 PM

but i need help
ok
this guy askd me out on saturday
and then
on sunday
we fukd
and that was my frst time
but i didnt rele care
cuz 2 me sex is just sex
nuthin rele much els about it
but then like last nite
he tells me he wants 2 buy me a ring
and weve only been going out 4 like a few days
and hes just been going 2 fast wit me
and i think i fukd it all up bcuz i had sex wit him
wen we had only been going out 4 a day
so does ne1 els think im a total idiot 4 having sex wit him
then kinda think that bcuz we did means that he wouldnt get 2 close 2 me

Plastic · 01-17-2008, 04:38 PM

I'll do you a deal, if you edit your post into proper sentences, with proper grammar, punctuation & paragraphing, Then I'll give you my advice.

**Adrastus** · 01-17-2008, 04:41 PM

That is a confusing story. But, no i don't think it was wrong, but you gave him the wrong idea, thats the only problem. Just try talking to him, tell him you don't want to go so fast, he will probably listen. And I never would have thought of you as a slut. Just talk to him, don't be scared of talking, its what a lot of relationships lack, and probably what they need the most.

Moved to Relationships!

Robthizzle · 01-17-2008, 04:50 PM

I agree with Plastic and Adrastus. Communication is the best thing in a relationship, talk to him and tell him everything you've have told us. If he as feelings for you like you have expressed then he will listen.

Czaro · 01-17-2008, 08:50 PM

I hate how people are so hung up with writing in perfect English >_> As if grammar and proper spelling are more important than the actual issue >_>

queerbait/queenscene · 01-17-2008, 09:27 PM

THANK U!!!
i tried 2 edit it
but it wouldnt let me
=/

The 78th · 01-18-2008, 05:37 AM

Quote:

I hate how people are so hung up with writing in perfect English >_> As if grammar and proper spelling are more important than the actual issue >_>

It's more just because it's easier to read xD

And about your problem... Uhh...

Maybe all I can say is, it's not all about sex.

Plastic · 01-18-2008, 04:01 PM

Oh yeah, you can't edit posts. how stupid.

Anyway, Is this meant to be an engagement ring or just a ring?

If it's just a ring then why are you freaking out?

queerbait/queenscene · 01-18-2008, 04:02 PM

Well at first i didnt know what to think of it.
Then yeah i asked him about it, and he said it was just a gift.
So yeah no so freaked out now.

The 78th · 01-19-2008, 01:01 PM

I'd still be freaked out a little, buying me something reasonably expensive after knowing them for that short period of time...

Arran · 01-20-2008, 04:11 AM

Was the sex good? and if so, is the relationship good? if it is then does it matter if there is a ring or is it just a problem with commeitment that you have, i meen it does seem a little fatsaforet just 4 dats but whats the problem if the relationship os good anyway?

toxicXskittlesXoX · 01-24-2008, 06:23 PM

no, your not a slut. i mean i had sexs with a guy after 5 days and then he asked me if i would ever marry him we ended up breaking up he was going way to fast if u go to fast its really pointless becuss then there nothing fun about it anymore.
you should try to find someone else

01-17-2008, 04:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
queerbait/queenscene Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: corona Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 11	most of u mite think im a total slut aftr reading this but i need help ok this guy askd me out on saturday and then on sunday we fukd and that was my frst time but i didnt rele care cuz 2 me sex is just sex nuthin rele much els about it but then like last nite he tells me he wants 2 buy me a ring and weve only been going out 4 like a few days and hes just been going 2 fast wit me and i think i fukd it all up bcuz i had sex wit him wen we had only been going out 4 a day so does ne1 els think im a total idiot 4 having sex wit him then kinda think that bcuz we did means that he wouldnt get 2 close 2 me

01-17-2008, 04:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 780	I'll do you a deal, if you edit your post into proper sentences, with proper grammar, punctuation & paragraphing, Then I'll give you my advice. __________________

01-17-2008, 04:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 864	That is a confusing story. But, no i don't think it was wrong, but you gave him the wrong idea, thats the only problem. Just try talking to him, tell him you don't want to go so fast, he will probably listen. And I never would have thought of you as a slut. Just talk to him, don't be scared of talking, its what a lot of relationships lack, and probably what they need the most. Moved to Relationships! __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

01-17-2008, 04:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
Robthizzle Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sin City Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 137	I agree with Plastic and Adrastus. Communication is the best thing in a relationship, talk to him and tell him everything you've have told us. If he as feelings for you like you have expressed then he will listen. __________________ get lost www.lost.eu/71f32 www.myspace.com/yaygogay Click Mehhh! Addicted 2 Attention!!!

01-18-2008, 04:01 PM	#8 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 780	Oh yeah, you can't edit posts. how stupid. Anyway, Is this meant to be an engagement ring or just a ring? If it's just a ring then why are you freaking out? __________________

01-17-2008, 08:50 PM	#5 (permalink)
Czaro Official GTF Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Toronto, Canada Gender: Posts: 121	I hate how people are so hung up with writing in perfect English >_> As if grammar and proper spelling are more important than the actual issue >_>

01-17-2008, 09:27 PM	#6 (permalink)
queerbait/queenscene Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: corona Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 11	THANK U!!! i tried 2 edit it but it wouldnt let me =/

01-18-2008, 04:02 PM	#9 (permalink)
queerbait/queenscene Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: corona Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 11	Well at first i didnt know what to think of it. Then yeah i asked him about it, and he said it was just a gift. So yeah no so freaked out now.

01-19-2008, 01:01 PM	#10 (permalink)
The 78th Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK, West Sussex, Goring Gender: Posts: 39	I'd still be freaked out a little, buying me something reasonably expensive after knowing them for that short period of time... __________________

01-20-2008, 04:11 AM	#11 (permalink)
Arran Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: hampshire Gender: Posts: 12	Was the sex good? and if so, is the relationship good? if it is then does it matter if there is a ring or is it just a problem with commeitment that you have, i meen it does seem a little fatsaforet just 4 dats but whats the problem if the relationship os good anyway?

01-24-2008, 06:23 PM	#12 (permalink)
toxicXskittlesXoX Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Maine Gender: Posts: 1	noo no, your not a slut. i mean i had sexs with a guy after 5 days and then he asked me if i would ever marry him we ended up breaking up he was going way to fast if u go to fast its really pointless becuss then there nothing fun about it anymore. you should try to find someone else

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