lostNconfused

I decided that i want a boyfriend because I'm ready to finally find clearance in my sexuality for years now I've been confused about what I am attracted to and now I want to be free of this huge headache and finally become comfortable with myself rather I'm gay or just bisexual or even straight(which i highly doubt I am) I just want clearance and my question is can any of you give me advice on how i should go about finding the man of my dreams I don't even care if its like a long distance relationship I just wanna be free

Alyosha

Well. I think I've met the man of my dreams; only, he made the initial contact with me. Part of it is just putting yourself out there for people to see I think. People toss myspace aside as an option for meeting people, but I heartily disagree with that. If you choose that route, the GTF profile on myspace has tons of guys, and there are plenty of GLB groups as well.

Other than that? I guess it just depends how out you are about your confusion? I only say that because in my mind it seems like your friends probably know some guys. If you can; try that.

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lostNconfused

the thing is noone can no that we are dating they can just think we're close friends

Alyosha

Well. I don't know what to say about that. I don't like getting all negative like this, but that sounds near impossible then. Sure; you'll get a few real love stories where that kind of thing can happen, eh, but it doesn't really that much I think.

And then; what about the other guy? You're going to have to get really, really, lucky to find a guy that's going to deal with the strain of 'being friends'.

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George

Right, basically if you think your gay or Bi, then tell people, they wont mind, and if they do, then you don't need them, you really don't. I would not recommend a long distance relationship, just put yourself out there as gay, someone will show interest.

dragon072891

well, i met my man in a weird way
he works at best buy,,
i walked in, caught him checkin me out,,, and it progressed from there... lol

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