i have no idea how i did it but i have two boyfriends and its messed up!

jackson303 · 01-30-2008, 01:16 AM

so this may be the weirdest situation i have ever gotten myself into (i seem to get into strange situations alot) but i have been dating two guys for awhile now. one of them is this really cute very sweet thoughtful highly inteligent guy who is a little on the nerdy side. my other boyfriend is this big outdoorsy very masculine jock who is very hot and very affectionate and loyal he is of average intelligence but what he lacks slightly in brains he makes up for in trying incredibly hard. i have been dating both for about 8 months. they knew about each other from the beginning and never had a problem i was just kinda playing the field and then i got more serious with both of them and never really broke things off. they have always known about each other and been fine with it. im not sure why but suddenly they both seem to have decided that they want me to pick and i have no idea what to do. if anyone out there has any suggestions please let me know!

much abliged.

jackson

Plastic · 01-30-2008, 07:52 AM

Which one do you like more/love/love more?

Czaro · 01-30-2008, 11:32 AM

I'd go with the muscular, outdoorsy, loyal guy.

**Adrastus** · 01-30-2008, 12:09 PM

I'm with Czaro . . . . mmm jock.

CeeJus · 01-30-2008, 02:55 PM

I think we need myspace links to asses how hot each of them are.

**reminiscence** · 01-30-2008, 03:09 PM

they want to be exclusive ie they really like you and maybe love you. You know there's one you find a LITTLE off putting. Dump him!

Plastic · 01-30-2008, 03:48 PM

Is your real problem, that you like the cuter one less, but want to go out with the cuter one?

Seth · 01-30-2008, 06:46 PM

Can't be fucked reading. Go with the fit one.

jackson303 · 01-31-2008, 01:34 AM

i think i like brett better (the jock) for me the big hot slightly slow but in a very cute way really kinda does it for me. the problem is that relationship wise i think kyle (the nerd) is better. well actually i guess one of the things i love about my relationship with brett is that we fight more and there is nothing better than makeup sex (im sure there are people who agree with me) with brett there is more passion but with kyle it just seems safer. i think i may go with brett. thanx for your responses!

mycole6 · 01-31-2008, 04:31 AM

I just say listen to your heart! thats the only thing!

KissamioKen3792 · 01-31-2008, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by jackson303

i think i like brett better (the jock) for me the big hot slightly slow but in a very cute way really kinda does it for me. the problem is that relationship wise i think kyle (the nerd) is better. well actually i guess one of the things i love about my relationship with brett is that we fight more and there is nothing better than makeup sex (im sure there are people who agree with me) with brett there is more passion but with kyle it just seems safer. i think i may go with brett. thanx for your responses!

I don't mean to offend you in any way but it seems like what you have with Brett is lust not love. Like you said before "well actually i guess one of the things i love about my relationship with brett is that we fight more and there is nothing better than makeup sex" That seems more like lust than love. You go with him because the makeup sex is amazing. Well that shows how much of a person you are. You shouldn't be dating two guys at the same time anyways. Have you no shame?

jackson303 · 01-31-2008, 09:09 PM

well personally i think that its a little unfair of you to judge me when you are so far outside of whats going on and you got the shallowest information about me and my life. also who are you to judge me if i like to be in two relationships. you may think its wrong for that but maybe i dont. its not your life so i would ask that you have respect for other people and their life choices. altho in case you were curious i did end up going with brett. our relationship may sound completely shallow but i actually do have feelings for him and what i mentioned about our fighting and make up sex was simply me putting it out there that my relationship with brett had a lot of passion in it on top of feelings where as my relationship with kyle didnt have so much in the way of passion. thats why i worded it "one of the things i love about my relationship with brett" instead of "the only thing i love about my relationship with brett"

dragon072891 · 02-03-2008, 11:29 AM

i almost got myself into this kind of situation.. i actually kinda just fell right into it

i was hanging out alot with one of them, and in bed with the other

the one i was in bed with only wanted my body,,,,,,,,, when i finally came around and realized that,, it ended....

KissamioKen3792 · 02-04-2008, 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jackson303

well personally i think that its a little unfair of you to judge me when you are so far outside of whats going on and you got the shallowest information about me and my life. also who are you to judge me if i like to be in two relationships. you may think its wrong for that but maybe i dont. its not your life so i would ask that you have respect for other people and their life choices. altho in case you were curious i did end up going with brett. our relationship may sound completely shallow but i actually do have feelings for him and what i mentioned about our fighting and make up sex was simply me putting it out there that my relationship with brett had a lot of passion in it on top of feelings where as my relationship with kyle didnt have so much in the way of passion. thats why i worded it "one of the things i love about my relationship with brett" instead of "the only thing i love about my relationship with brett"

I'm sorry. I was out of line the other day when I said that. I was having a bad day and took it out on you. I'm sorry it was wrong of me. I don't have a say in this. I was just saying what I wanted to say. It came out more negative. Again, I'm sorry. =\

01-30-2008, 01:16 AM	#1 (permalink)
jackson303 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Seattle, Washington Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 4	i have no idea how i did it but i have two boyfriends and its messed up! so this may be the weirdest situation i have ever gotten myself into (i seem to get into strange situations alot) but i have been dating two guys for awhile now. one of them is this really cute very sweet thoughtful highly inteligent guy who is a little on the nerdy side. my other boyfriend is this big outdoorsy very masculine jock who is very hot and very affectionate and loyal he is of average intelligence but what he lacks slightly in brains he makes up for in trying incredibly hard. i have been dating both for about 8 months. they knew about each other from the beginning and never had a problem i was just kinda playing the field and then i got more serious with both of them and never really broke things off. they have always known about each other and been fine with it. im not sure why but suddenly they both seem to have decided that they want me to pick and i have no idea what to do. if anyone out there has any suggestions please let me know! much abliged. jackson

01-30-2008, 07:52 AM	#2 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 782	Which one do you like more/love/love more? __________________

01-30-2008, 12:09 PM	#4 (permalink)
Adrastus Global Moderator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Eastern Canada Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 865	I'm with Czaro . . . . mmm jock. __________________ Never argue with idiots, in the end they will just beat you with their experience.

01-30-2008, 02:55 PM	#5 (permalink)
CeeJus Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Michigan Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 111	I think we need myspace links to asses how hot each of them are. __________________ "A guy showed up to my door with anal beads and a flash light. I was like....woah woah woah!....what's up with the flashlight?!" -Chelsea Handler youtube.com/ceejus

01-30-2008, 03:09 PM	#6 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 473	they want to be exclusive ie they really like you and maybe love you. You know there's one you find a LITTLE off putting. Dump him! __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

01-30-2008, 11:32 AM	#3 (permalink)
Czaro Official GTF Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Toronto, Canada Gender: Posts: 121	I'd go with the muscular, outdoorsy, loyal guy.

01-30-2008, 03:48 PM	#7 (permalink)
Plastic Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SE England Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 782	Is your real problem, that you like the cuter one less, but want to go out with the cuter one? __________________

01-30-2008, 06:46 PM	#8 (permalink)
Seth Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: manchestaaaaaoor Gender: Posts: 1,075	Can't be fucked reading. Go with the fit one. __________________ myspace.com/kthxdan

01-31-2008, 01:34 AM	#9 (permalink)
jackson303 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Seattle, Washington Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 4	i think i like brett better (the jock) for me the big hot slightly slow but in a very cute way really kinda does it for me. the problem is that relationship wise i think kyle (the nerd) is better. well actually i guess one of the things i love about my relationship with brett is that we fight more and there is nothing better than makeup sex (im sure there are people who agree with me) with brett there is more passion but with kyle it just seems safer. i think i may go with brett. thanx for your responses!

01-31-2008, 04:31 AM	#10 (permalink)
mycole6 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Kokomo, Indiana Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 130	I just say listen to your heart! thats the only thing! __________________ Creed Bonivard http://creedbonivard.tripod.com

01-31-2008, 09:09 PM	#12 (permalink)
jackson303 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Seattle, Washington Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 4	well personally i think that its a little unfair of you to judge me when you are so far outside of whats going on and you got the shallowest information about me and my life. also who are you to judge me if i like to be in two relationships. you may think its wrong for that but maybe i dont. its not your life so i would ask that you have respect for other people and their life choices. altho in case you were curious i did end up going with brett. our relationship may sound completely shallow but i actually do have feelings for him and what i mentioned about our fighting and make up sex was simply me putting it out there that my relationship with brett had a lot of passion in it on top of feelings where as my relationship with kyle didnt have so much in the way of passion. thats why i worded it "one of the things i love about my relationship with brett" instead of "the only thing i love about my relationship with brett"

02-03-2008, 11:29 AM	#13 (permalink)
dragon072891 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: mobile, Alabama Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 1,273	i almost got myself into this kind of situation.. i actually kinda just fell right into it i was hanging out alot with one of them, and in bed with the other the one i was in bed with only wanted my body,,,,,,,,, when i finally came around and realized that,, it ended.... __________________ life is what you make it, it dose'nt come pre packaged,, so i say do a good job because your the only one that cant escape it

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