i dont know wat to do!!!

killingloneliness · 02-02-2008, 11:27 AM

well ive become good friends with a guy and we r gonna hang out tonight. hes curious and says that he wants to try some things, maybe even sex. i dont know wat to do cause it will be my first time and i kinda wanted it to be something special. the problem is that he says he would never date a guy because there would be too much temptation to cheat! i dont know wat to do! advice plz?!

Jason4chris · 02-02-2008, 01:38 PM

tell him you don't want to have sex. I learned the hard way that sex isn't even fun unless its with someone you care about. If you want to wait for the right guy than you should, don't let anyone talk you into it unless you want to.

foamy_x · 02-02-2008, 02:00 PM

Yeah I wouldn't do anything with him.
It might be his first time with a guy, but it's also yours.

**reminiscence** · 02-02-2008, 06:56 PM

do NOT do it. It can deal huge psychological damage, and odds are higher (if the persons not special on your first time) you could become a sex addict

dragon072891 · 02-04-2008, 02:09 AM

i wouldnt personally go as far as sex,, but if hes curious.. let him just explore a little bit,, but you would have to draw your own line as to how far and what not

02-02-2008, 11:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
killingloneliness Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: MA Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 128	i dont know wat to do!!! well ive become good friends with a guy and we r gonna hang out tonight. hes curious and says that he wants to try some things, maybe even sex. i dont know wat to do cause it will be my first time and i kinda wanted it to be something special. the problem is that he says he would never date a guy because there would be too much temptation to cheat! i dont know wat to do! advice plz?!

02-02-2008, 02:00 PM	#3 (permalink)
foamy_x Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Gidea Park Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 35	Yeah I wouldn't do anything with him. It might be his first time with a guy, but it's also yours. __________________ Foamy_x

02-02-2008, 06:56 PM	#4 (permalink)
reminiscence Moderator Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ireland Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 473	do NOT do it. It can deal huge psychological damage, and odds are higher (if the persons not special on your first time) you could become a sex addict __________________ Spread the I'm imaginary, that makes you crazy. You think, therefore I am. Baile Atha Cliath!

02-04-2008, 02:09 AM	#5 (permalink)
dragon072891 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: mobile, Alabama Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 1,273	i wouldnt personally go as far as sex,, but if hes curious.. let him just explore a little bit,, but you would have to draw your own line as to how far and what not __________________ life is what you make it, it dose'nt come pre packaged,, so i say do a good job because your the only one that cant escape it

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02-02-2008, 01:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
Jason4chris Official GTF Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Penticton, BC Age: 18 Posts: 37	tell him you don't want to have sex. I learned the hard way that sex isn't even fun unless its with someone you care about. If you want to wait for the right guy than you should, don't let anyone talk you into it unless you want to.