My Sadistic Ex Won't LEAVE!!!

HarlyQ. · 02-03-2008, 01:53 AM

Well, once again He has found a way to come back to my world and I was finally starting to get away and over him. First of all, He IS a classic "Asshole" no better word. He cheated on me with my best friend...who is a Girl...IN MY BED! And He basically ruined my social life by making our sex life the story of the year in my High School aka, I was the school's "Gay Slut" And I've never been close to the ol' L-O-V-E, but if it's anything that I've ever imagined it as, He's the only one that's ever touched that part of me, and it sucks. It's all an unrequited situation. But he is back...and being extremely too relaxed about our whole situation and is simply trying to lead me on.

I seriously do not know what I should do, and I never ever ask advise, so you can all see how desperate I really am.

uhh...help?

If there are any Queer As Folk fans out there, I guess you could look at my conundrum as the Emmet and the Football Celeb that fell in Love.

CeeJus · 02-03-2008, 10:30 AM

Whatev you do, don't go out with him again. As for what you should do, it sounds like any kind of revenge would just make the situation worse. It sounds like you came somewhat close to possibly loving him, and anything you do will prolly just make you feel emptier. As hard as it sounds, just try to transcend the situation and let it go. People can call you the gay slut, but the fact is 99% of those people are unhappy with their shitty lives. Ultimately we all turn into nothing, so when they call you gay slut just remember that they're no better than you are.

dragon072891 · 02-04-2008, 01:08 AM

revenge = bad

and reputations can be rebuilt

my main concern would be to get him 100% out of my life

Mvalong · 02-04-2008, 01:29 AM

Pepper spray???

HarlyQ. · 02-04-2008, 01:37 PM

If revenge were my option, I'd have gone with the "Hard Candy" approach...not really.

mycole6 · 02-04-2008, 02:49 PM

ALRIGHTY THEN! Ha! anyways! I'm such a fruit loop!

t.A.T.u. · 02-04-2008, 06:32 PM

yea, I wouldn't do anything with or even for him. In fact, I'd just ignore him.

02-03-2008, 01:53 AM	#1 (permalink)
HarlyQ. Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Midlothian, VA Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 13	My Sadistic Ex Won't LEAVE!!! Well, once again He has found a way to come back to my world and I was finally starting to get away and over him. First of all, He IS a classic "Asshole" no better word. He cheated on me with my best friend...who is a Girl...IN MY BED! And He basically ruined my social life by making our sex life the story of the year in my High School aka, I was the school's "Gay Slut" And I've never been close to the ol' L-O-V-E, but if it's anything that I've ever imagined it as, He's the only one that's ever touched that part of me, and it sucks. It's all an unrequited situation. But he is back...and being extremely too relaxed about our whole situation and is simply trying to lead me on. I seriously do not know what I should do, and I never ever ask advise, so you can all see how desperate I really am. uhh...help? If there are any Queer As Folk fans out there, I guess you could look at my conundrum as the Emmet and the Football Celeb that fell in Love.

02-03-2008, 10:30 AM	#2 (permalink)
CeeJus Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Michigan Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 111	Whatev you do, don't go out with him again. As for what you should do, it sounds like any kind of revenge would just make the situation worse. It sounds like you came somewhat close to possibly loving him, and anything you do will prolly just make you feel emptier. As hard as it sounds, just try to transcend the situation and let it go. People can call you the gay slut, but the fact is 99% of those people are unhappy with their shitty lives. Ultimately we all turn into nothing, so when they call you gay slut just remember that they're no better than you are. __________________ "A guy showed up to my door with anal beads and a flash light. I was like....woah woah woah!....what's up with the flashlight?!" -Chelsea Handler youtube.com/ceejus

02-04-2008, 01:08 AM	#3 (permalink)
dragon072891 GTF Donator! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: mobile, Alabama Gender: Posts: 1,152	revenge = bad and reputations can be rebuilt my main concern would be to get him 100% out of my life __________________ life is what you make it, it dose'nt come pre packaged,, so i say do a good job because your the only one that cant escape it

02-04-2008, 02:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
mycole6 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Kokomo, Indiana Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 130	ALRIGHTY THEN! Ha! anyways! I'm such a fruit loop! __________________ Creed Bonivard http://creedbonivard.tripod.com

02-04-2008, 06:32 PM	#7 (permalink)
t.A.T.u. Official GTF Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: U.S.A. Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 601	yea, I wouldn't do anything with or even for him. In fact, I'd just ignore him. __________________ t.A.T.u. ~ The Revolution of our Lives ~ t.A.T.u. «Be in love. Be yourself. We are.» ~t.A.T.u. YuLen believer! Watch 220 music video here

02-04-2008, 01:29 AM	#4 (permalink)
Mvalong Official GTF Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Waukesha Wisconsin Age: 17 Posts: 16	Pepper spray???

02-04-2008, 01:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
HarlyQ. Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Midlothian, VA Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 13	If revenge were my option, I'd have gone with the "Hard Candy" approach...not really.

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