weird / awkward sex

dragon072891 · 07-05-2008, 11:34 PM

ok, this isnt the usual "what do you like where" thread

this is just to ask a few questions that have been on my mind the past few weeks,,

i have dated three boys, and had sex with two,, but before i ever became sexually active,, i HATED pain,, with a unique passion i thought only i was capable of..

with my first boy, bryant, we went into our sexual relations nonchalantly,, we were both new to begin with,, and then i was raped, by him,, it was the worst pain of my life,, and it only made me hate pain that much more...

so then he was out of my life, finally,, and then came along connor,, he was also forced into sexual relations,, so he was scared, as was i

as our relationship progressed, we became sexually active, as scared as i was at first, that quickly went away,, and when done right it dosent hurt.. but he done somethign to me,, one night in my car, that drastically changed my life forever, i found his "spot" if you will, and he suddenly reached up and dug his fingernails into my back, and ill admit, it hurt like a bitchhhh.. but i liked it, i liked it so much, i "made" him do it again,, until my back bled,,,

now to keep this relevant to the sex section, ill make my point,, pain is good,, back scratching, hair pulling, biting,, its all a major turn on espically in the actual act of sexual intercourse,, so yea, id advise try it,, you just might find somethign new you never knew you liked

dragon072891 · 07-05-2008, 11:41 PM

ok ok, i didn't actually ask any questions in context, but what i was implying (which i know someone just wont catch) is what experiences have you had, similar to that, that changed your views? and what were they?

rileycoyote · 07-06-2008, 12:01 AM

i've never been raped (im so sorry, thats horrible), but i do like a lil pain, and being controlled.

my thing is I really like dirty talk. i think i am pretty kinky, but I guess what consider to be kinky other people might consider to be not that unusual at all.

jspoons1293 · 07-06-2008, 03:52 AM

umm idk. sex is actually sort of like a split with my personality. normally, i'm pretty adamant about what i want to do, and if someone tells me to do something, i'm pretty much guaranteed not to do it just out of spite, but with sex, i'm kind of a push-over. that's not to say i'm a completely submissive bottom or anything, it's just... idk, it's hard to describe without it sounding that way. umm... alright.... i'm "versatile" i think is the word for it. but if someone puts their hand on my head while i'm giving them a blowjob and pushes me down, i get pissed off. just a sex quirk with me i guess lol.

and with regards to pain, i can see how it could be a really big turn on, because in certain situations it's kind of like a sign that the other person is thinking "holy fucking shit this is amazing", but if the pain is simply there for the sake of being painful, then its a turn off.

and what do you mean that guy raped you? like he literally raped you, or figuratively like he wasn't easy on you your first time so it was like he was raping you? because i think if he actually raped you, you should put his name and his address on this forum so we can all go kick his ass.

mwsk91 · 07-24-2008, 11:51 PM

All sex is weird and awkward.

xypowerpop · 07-25-2008, 01:57 AM

lol. gay sex in any form isn't unconventional itself?

make out kid · 07-25-2008, 04:49 AM

pain is pleasure at some points. the whole tied up, being gagged, slightly strangled as to heighten orgasm, the hot wax and ice, anything that adds a new sensation even if it is slightly painful, makes the pleasure so much more pleasurable

mwsk91 · 07-25-2008, 08:20 AM

Im gonna need a drink right now because of what you said.

Interficio · 08-17-2008, 07:41 PM

Im a glutton for punishment, fortunately yet unfortunately..

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07-05-2008, 11:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
dragon072891 GTF Donator! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: mobile, Alabama Gender: Posts: 1,163	weird / awkward sex ok, this isnt the usual "what do you like where" thread this is just to ask a few questions that have been on my mind the past few weeks,, i have dated three boys, and had sex with two,, but before i ever became sexually active,, i HATED pain,, with a unique passion i thought only i was capable of.. with my first boy, bryant, we went into our sexual relations nonchalantly,, we were both new to begin with,, and then i was raped, by him,, it was the worst pain of my life,, and it only made me hate pain that much more... so then he was out of my life, finally,, and then came along connor,, he was also forced into sexual relations,, so he was scared, as was i as our relationship progressed, we became sexually active, as scared as i was at first, that quickly went away,, and when done right it dosent hurt.. but he done somethign to me,, one night in my car, that drastically changed my life forever, i found his "spot" if you will, and he suddenly reached up and dug his fingernails into my back, and ill admit, it hurt like a bitchhhh.. but i liked it, i liked it so much, i "made" him do it again,, until my back bled,,, now to keep this relevant to the sex section, ill make my point,, pain is good,, back scratching, hair pulling, biting,, its all a major turn on espically in the actual act of sexual intercourse,, so yea, id advise try it,, you just might find somethign new you never knew you liked __________________ life is what you make it, it dose'nt come pre packaged,, so i say do a good job because your the only one that cant escape it

07-05-2008, 11:41 PM	#2 (permalink)
dragon072891 GTF Donator! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: mobile, Alabama Gender: Posts: 1,163	ok ok, i didn't actually ask any questions in context, but what i was implying (which i know someone just wont catch) is what experiences have you had, similar to that, that changed your views? and what were they? __________________ life is what you make it, it dose'nt come pre packaged,, so i say do a good job because your the only one that cant escape it

07-06-2008, 03:52 AM	#4 (permalink)
jspoons1293 Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Shaker Hts, OH Age: 18 Gender: Posts: 415	umm idk. sex is actually sort of like a split with my personality. normally, i'm pretty adamant about what i want to do, and if someone tells me to do something, i'm pretty much guaranteed not to do it just out of spite, but with sex, i'm kind of a push-over. that's not to say i'm a completely submissive bottom or anything, it's just... idk, it's hard to describe without it sounding that way. umm... alright.... i'm "versatile" i think is the word for it. but if someone puts their hand on my head while i'm giving them a blowjob and pushes me down, i get pissed off. just a sex quirk with me i guess lol. and with regards to pain, i can see how it could be a really big turn on, because in certain situations it's kind of like a sign that the other person is thinking "holy fucking shit this is amazing", but if the pain is simply there for the sake of being painful, then its a turn off. and what do you mean that guy raped you? like he literally raped you, or figuratively like he wasn't easy on you your first time so it was like he was raping you? because i think if he actually raped you, you should put his name and his address on this forum so we can all go kick his ass. __________________ "Is it bright where you are? Have the people changed? Does it make you happy you're so strange?" --Smashing Pumpkins, "The Beginning is the End is the Beginning" Last edited by jspoons1293; 07-06-2008 at 03:55 AM.

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07-06-2008, 12:01 AM	#3 (permalink)
rileycoyote Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Baltimore, MD Age: 15 Gender: Posts: 580	i've never been raped (im so sorry, thats horrible), but i do like a lil pain, and being controlled. my thing is I really like dirty talk. i think i am pretty kinky, but I guess what consider to be kinky other people might consider to be not that unusual at all.

07-24-2008, 11:51 PM	#5 (permalink)
mwsk91 Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Shaker Heights, Ohio Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 100	All sex is weird and awkward.

07-25-2008, 01:57 AM	#6 (permalink)
xypowerpop Official GTF Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: United States Gender: Posts: 92	lol. gay sex in any form isn't unconventional itself?

07-25-2008, 04:49 AM	#7 (permalink)
make out kid Official GTF Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: leeds Age: 17 Gender: Posts: 179	pain is pleasure at some points. the whole tied up, being gagged, slightly strangled as to heighten orgasm, the hot wax and ice, anything that adds a new sensation even if it is slightly painful, makes the pleasure so much more pleasurable

07-25-2008, 08:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
mwsk91 Official GTF Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Shaker Heights, Ohio Age: 16 Gender: Posts: 100	Im gonna need a drink right now because of what you said.

08-17-2008, 07:41 PM	#9 (permalink)
Interficio Official GTF Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Gender: Posts: 27	Im a glutton for punishment, fortunately yet unfortunately..